19 and is dating a 38 year old women and she is messing with his head pretty bad...how can his Mom or me grandmother let him know it is the wrong thing to do..she is telling him that his mom is controlling him....need answers thanks ....
2007-02-17 11:34:11 · 8 answers · asked by me1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and she is married also....
2007-02-17 11:37:15 · update #1
I think the only thing you can do is be there to support him. This doesn't sound like a good relationship for him to be in and it's more than likely going to be over. i think you need to tell your grandson that you respect his right to make his own decisions about who he sees and let him know that whilst you don't approve of the relationship, you're there for him if he needs you. I don't think this is a reason to stress, this will run it's course and when it does you don't want him to resent you or blame you because it didn't. Stay out of it and let him make his own mistakes so when it doesn't work out he has only himself to blame.
2007-02-17 11:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame on the woman who takes his growing years!! Sorry to say, but you will both likely have to let him go through it himself and just be there to catch him when shes used him all up. My daughter was 19 and dating a 29 year old who had a child. I could only support her, the more I tried to talk to her, the furthur we fell apart. She went through it and we are stronger today for it. He will see, believe me. Poll some hot young ladies in your area to meet him and keep them coming. He is likely to see the difference between what he has and what he really wants.
2007-02-17 11:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 07:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll realize it eventually. being 19 is hard, i was there a year ago. it's his way of proving his maturity, and when the relationship falls apart he'll know more clearly how to make the right decision.
2007-02-17 11:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing u can do
sorry
he wont listen at this age
so just be by his side
trust me he will come crawling back
2007-02-17 11:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by urluvmakesmeweak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it id be proud if my grandson one day has wheels like that
2007-02-17 11:38:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll learn a lesson or two.
2007-02-17 11:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck...did you listen to your mother at that age?
2007-02-17 11:37:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋