My friend has a crush on a girl that he only sees once a month. They don't talk to eachother a lot either since both the guy and the girl are shy. But everytime he sees her, it completely makes his day.
Is this normal?
2007-02-17 11:32:26 · 29 answers · asked by Friend 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh yes, in fact the less contact, the better - at least where a crush is concerned. That way it is emotionally safer.
Be a cupid and subtly nudge them together.
2007-02-17 11:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by Dharma Nature 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely normal! However, recognize that it is a crush and nothing else. Now, if one of them would have the nerve to talk to the other and get to know them, well....
A crush is usually (in my experience) good because it is all about what could be, not what is. The girl could be great. Should could want all the things you want. Everything is perfect. It is your imagination running away with the thought filled of another in a perfect limelight. It is completely normal. Encourage your friend to talk to this girl...
2007-02-17 19:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by C. A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH Yes...and that month will go by sooo slow cuz you can't wait to see each other. Many long distance relationship would love to be able to see each other once a month....but yes...a crush of course you can and good luck!
2007-02-17 19:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by sporty_kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It ia fine to have a crush on anyone you want to. Just make sure your friend understands that a relationship might not work so well unless they both make an effort to see each other more. I am glad that she makes your frined's day. It sounds normal enough to me. Good luck to your friend.
2007-02-17 19:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by ~*altosax *~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-02-17 19:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by Mickey22_jp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! Yes, yes, yes! It is completely normal. have you ever heard the saying "love grows stronger when seperated"? Yup! It's true! I only see my bf once a month but that doesn't stop us from liking each other.
2007-02-17 19:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by horsesareforever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say this is normal. Probably he has much stronger feelings about her immediately after he sees her. He might forget about her when it's been a while or he might still think about her. It's up to him whether he wants to pursue a relationship with her or try to go after someone else, but up to this point his feelings are a normal reaction to seeing someone he thinks is great.
2007-02-17 19:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, technichally YES but i wouldn't recommend it!!! my old relationship was like that & It didn't work out b/c both of us would complain about not being able to see each other!!! but i'm glad it makes his day but just try to figure out why he wants to be w/ her so far away & if it seems resonable then Yes i think their relationship might work!!! hope i helped you & your friend!!!
2007-02-17 19:39:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure it's normal. and are you saying "your friend" as really meaning You.. because if not then i don't know why you are so concerned. if so, then you really seem to like this girl and you should talk to her more and get to know her. but you sound more on the younger side, so yes it's normal because it's just puppy love and infatuation...
2007-02-17 19:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be the definition of a crush: someone you find yourself attracted to. If it makes his day, then yes, he does have a crush on her.
2007-02-17 19:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by martinlh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋