ok last time i ask a question i got great advice.
so any way i dont want to be with this guy, but i know
he really, really likes me but i dont know a good way
to break up with him without hurting his feelings to much!!!!
so if any guys or girls have any good ways or good advice
for breaking up
PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE help me!!!
thanks much!!!
2007-02-17 11:21:29 · 28 answers · asked by jess98gum 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont really like him like him you know what i mean?
2007-02-17 11:24:21 · update #1
ok people when i say aging i mean i had a question befor this one
2007-02-17 11:27:26 · update #2
fyi also i do things face to face no e-mail texting crap thats really stupid!!
2007-02-17 11:34:39 · update #3
Just be completely honest with him, tell him how you feel but be gentle about it, perhaps suggest being friends with him still, if he likes you so much he may not want to completely be away from you
2007-02-17 11:26:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are having some personal things happening in your life and its taking up all your energy. If he asks what it is just say its too hard to talk about and tell him it has nothing to do with him you just can't handle a relationship right now. If he asks if you'll want one later just say you don't know right now. Tell him once all of this is resolved you will know if it is something you can handle. Either that or say your parents wont let you date him anymore and you can't go against your parents wishes. OR say you have a flaming STD... that will chase him away. LOL. No, try the first or second one! Hope that helps! :-)
2007-02-17 19:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by K.A. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest tell the truth--it's like ripping a bandaid off. Ya know, I haven't had a relationship with a girl for years, and I would give anything to have something with a girl...even if it meant breaking up down the road. Most people want to live their lives...you delaying the inevitable is just going to delay this guy getting on with his life and moving on.
2007-02-17 19:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by stagger_lee1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are going through some changes right now and you need time to sort out who you are and where you want to go with your life. I think anyway that you look at it , his feelings will be hurt, but let let him know that it is unfair to him for you to continue in this relationship, while trying to figure out what you want. Actually I believe that you would be telling him the truth because I don't believe that you know what you want . Date have fun until you figure out exactly what type of a guy you want.
2007-02-17 19:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl just say hey "So and so i dont think that i am really ready for a serious relationship so if we can just be friends then thats cool" or say hey so and so i been going through somethings and i really need my space, i just need sometime to think about somethings to myself so if you dont mind i will hit you up when im feeling a little more like myself" thats all you got to say if he really cares he will willing give you your space if he doesn't an agurement is going to start and thats your cue to leave.
2007-02-17 19:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by Tink1989 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good advice
for breaking up :oxymoron! You can't break up with someone and expect them no to be the least bit hurt. It won't be the end of the world when you break up, but maybe you should put yourself in his shoes. That might help you figure out a way to let him down easy. (Another oxymoron:let him down easy.)
2007-02-17 19:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by Ana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what your saying,,the problems been there for awhile,,well,,like i told my daughter,go to him and tell him straight,he's deserves that much at least,,,my daughter was going to do it on-line..she took my advice.Breaking up is not easy,being honest about things helps a whole lot..My daughter is a heart breaker and i wish wouldn't do that..she's 19..huh
2007-02-17 19:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by dano_xldd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would tell him face to face no matter what and that you just are not sure he is the one for you dont text or call him that is just cruel just always be honest with him and if you must tell him you are not ready for a relationship that deep it always works best o luck girl!
2007-02-17 19:25:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY DO YOU WANT TO BREAK UP WITH HIM??? ANYWAYS, JUST LET HIM KNOW..IF YOU REALLY CANT DO IT IN PERSON (WHICH I THINK IS BETTER) THEN JUST DO TEXT HIM OR SEND HIM SOMETHING. U GET THE POINT! LOL..IF YOU WAIT TOO LONG TO BREAK UP WITH HIM, YOU'RE GONNA START HATING HIM. TRUST ME. THEN THINGS WILL JUST GET WORSE. SO, IF I WAS YOU ID JUST TELL HIM ITS NOT WORKING OUT, OR TEXT HIM SAYING BYE. OR IF I'M REALLY CHICKEN, I'D JUST NOT ANSWER ANY OF HIS CALLS OR ANYTHING.
2007-02-17 19:26:52 · answer #9 · answered by TiGoBiTiZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're trying to get us to convince you to walk away from this Guy? You're Nuts! If you have to ask for reasons to break it off? You're not really wanting to. Realize why you're asking these Questions. Jeepers!
2007-02-17 19:30:09 · answer #10 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋