Well, I have been in a complicated situation in my life where until now I cannot understand what has happened ...!! when I fell in love with my gf, I was in a cultic religion that I didn't like , there were a lot of false rules preventing association with my gf who was a very good person ...!!so I got out of it and try to get back to the former religion I was in before joining the cultic one ..but, it was a difficult process, by that time I was feeling lost ...My gf was completing different from me, with a completely different religion which contradicts both of the organization I was part of ..and follow a completely strange and different belief systems ...I loved her a lot , I didn't find it was a reason to leave but I was really feeling uncomfortable in the relationship ..after a while being with her, she tries to push her belief on me ..I tried to understand her and even tried to join her but I couldn't because I was so convinced of my core beliefs ..
2007-02-17 11:20:32 · 7 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
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2007-02-17 11:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your situation seems very complicated to me and given you a lot of heartache. There seems to be awkwardness and difficulties.
There will be other loves in your life, there is definitely more than one 'right' person out there for each of us.
When you meet one of these 'right' ones things will flow along smoothly and you wont need to come for help. There will be no soul searching or struggles.
Be patient and it will happen.
In the meantime see everyone that comes along as a practice person.
I am talking from many experiences!
Good luck xx
2007-02-17 19:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by just me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all God made us all different so we may run into problems in our relationships, but the bible tells us not to be unequaly yoked meaning being with someone who is not going the same way you are going or believing in the same thing that you belive. That is why we should seek God befor choosing a mate so that he can direct our path.
Zhoque
2007-02-17 19:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by brownshan28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very difficult to have a long term relationship with somebody who has different religious beliefs. What about when you have children, what will you teach them? What about points you disagree on that affect how you live your lives?
I have seen a lot of people who married people with different beliefs. While they love their spouse, it is hard on them
2007-02-17 19:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by Laura H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get stable inside yourself then all will come together.But NEVER compromise the CORE !!! Just be SURE the core is REAL !
2007-02-17 19:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by Israel-1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You going to follow her to Heaven or God?
Make a choice.
2007-02-17 19:25:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently youve already bmade this decision
you havent stated your religion
we have many of us loved someone and it didnt last....there is someone for everyone...
2007-02-17 19:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋