how do u let yourex knowthat u still love him but that u can not be with him?

Question

U TRIED MANY TIMES AND IT NEVER WORKED BUT THE LOVE IS STILL THRE. HOW DO U MOVE ON ?

Answer 1

You just have to tell him, Moving on is hard. It seems like a life time process, I often wonder why does our heart behave this way.

Answer 2

Getting to the root of why it didn’t work will help. Knowledge is the power, after all. When you can know what it was that thwarted having a long, steady, loving relationship, then you can grow, and move from there. Discovering the hidden pieces will bring about an understanding that could either provide closure or explore what things need to change within you or the other. Try to think of it as an experience that you can learn from, and be in the know for the future. You will likely find out more about yourself, and when you possibly consider another in your life, you can understand that you know what you are about, and then your job would be to explore others to find out if they are on the same page that you are at. Perhaps try eharmony.com. They offer a compatibility test, and that helps to cut down the risks some? Good luck, and take care!

Answer 3

If you can't be with him is there any point telling him that you still love him? it might just make things harder for you both.

You have to accept that even though love is still there, that you broke up for a reason and one day you will meet someone who is more perfect for you and you will love again.

It's hard but you need to get him out of your life but here's some tips-

*Don't talk to him for a while so you can get your head around things by yourself.

*Spend time with your friends.

*Remember that you're ex wasn't perfect.

*Eat lots of chocolate!

Here's a few good website links:
http://www.ivillage.co.uk/relationships/understanding/thinking/articles/0,,144_698944-2,00.html

http://www.ivillage.co.uk/relationships/couple/split/articles/0,,152_680788,00.html

You will get over it, time is the greatest healer and just remember this ...
"If you love somebody, let them go. If they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were."

Good Luck-i hope you feel better about things soon

Answer 4

woo i feel u 100% on that. I still have feelings for mi ex but what I would do is talk about it with mi friends and sometimes write about it. I would let mi anger out on the page and it feel so good afterwords. I found that has made me overcome the stress that he gives me when I think of him

Answer 5

By going out and finding someone, who you can make it with. There is no sense beating a dead horse.
You have done your best, as has he, so just tell yourself it's all over, and start dating.
It won't happen overnight, but it will happen, time, heals all. Once you are involved with someone new, your thoughts of your ex, will become less and less.

Answer 6

Stop acting or telling him that there is still something there for him, when your able to this then you will be ready to move on yourself. Prolonging this will hurt yourself and him, he will move on with his life like every other man has done for centuries. Good luck.

Answer 7

if both of yall still love each other, why in the hell r yall not with each...the world will give yall so many reasons why yall shouldnt b together but what keep yall together izzzzzzzzzzzz yall love...it sounds like somebody iz running from love rather than facing, becuz believe me if the love still buring after yall stop talking...later on in life its gonna b like love at first sight...quote me on that...

Answer 8

To Me this is just a cop-out. If the love were still there w/BOTH PARTIES---u'de make it work......SO, 1 of U has lost the Golden Glow....Sounds Like U.