my bf and i are on a break which im not thrilled about but i love him enough to support him..the break makes sense right now cuz we both have to study but somehow it bothers me cuz whn i do get to talk to him for a little while he dosent seem to be bothered!!!!!!!
i miss him and all the works...so how do i handle feeling like it dosent bother him.its just so hard not being able to talk to him..or see him...should i just try to keep away from him until he contacts me?
2007-02-17 11:16:43 · 8 answers · asked by pixie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could try that.....but it might piss him off.
2007-02-17 11:20:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isoltation can be dangerous and only a fool builds a fortress to defend himself. I guess trying something else might work. Lure him out of the fortress. Or maybe you'd know better as there is a silence before the strom. I think it's basically -- two things that make you special. You and the way you are understood - by your Bf.
2007-02-20 07:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by akshaynp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the HARDEST thing to deal with trust me, I don't like it with my girlfriend either, but best thing to do is try your hardest not to bug him, let him come to you, that way you look more understanding and less needy, everyone feels differently and takes things differently, yes yes yes. Taking a break is like going on 1 way trip to hell! Be strong. Write letters to him when you feel as if you really need to see him, then store them away, without actually giving them to him, it will make you feel better. Then when he come back you can show him how much he was missed!
2007-02-17 19:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either a) Doesn't feel as close to you as you do to him or b) Doesn't express it. Perhaps you should break it off if you're not getting the attention you need, or at least talk to him about it. You shouldn't feel like you have to hold back.
2007-02-17 19:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by aparadoxsimple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just it up. you are doing very good.If you dont feel like giving up.Don't. Do it and live with no regret than with regrets of not doing it.
when it is time to stop, you will know.
2007-02-17 19:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by wiser 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you mean support him financially. if so, that is a huge nono.
find other things to do. if you keep calling he will think you have no other options. bad move.
2007-02-17 19:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by Mocha D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is being really responsible and you are being too clingy...
2007-02-17 19:20:42 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he could be pretending that it bothers him
2007-02-17 19:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by wassup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋