My girlfriend has been mad at me for 3 days.. she won't come over she even said she wouldn't come over, she even got so mad she said I always ruin everything and that I always piss her off, she got mad at me over not hearing her correctly and said I gave her attitude, even last night she was pissed and called me boring. I really want to see her and she keeps cutting our phone calls short avoiding me, she has bi polar, but can be very sweet to me been together for a year and a half. What should I do!? I've appologized countless times, and really want her over, but she says no.. can anyone help?
2007-02-17 11:09:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't want to break up, because she has a really horrible family life I love her to death and want to be there for her..
2007-02-17 11:42:49 · update #1
Its not SEX I want, I just want the girl who was a sweet heart to me 3 days ago back!
2007-02-17 11:47:00 · update #2
Shes said countless of times how much she loves and adores me, then also how much she cant stand me and gets pissed off at me.. its like there are two sides to her
2007-02-17 12:03:07 · update #3
I do the same thing to my crush. We're just not going out, but he's the same as u to me. I also tell him he piss me off, but I ADORE him. I just want him to fight 4 me to see how much he could do 4 me even in the bad times.
But of course, we're not bf/gf so he dosen't DO anything.
Anyway, as I said, I think she just wants u to fight for her.
Please answer my question!,
the one about my love!.
oxox,
peace!.
2007-02-17 12:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very difficult to have a relationship with someone who is bi-polar. It can be done, and there are successful ones out there though. The meds used to treat this disorder must be taken regularly and monitored by a physician. If her meds are stabilized then perhaps hers moods would be less erratic. I still think I would just give her some space and see what happens when she is in a good mood. Maybe she will have a change of heart and call you. The bottom line is not what you want to hear. You may love her more than life itself. But if she does not feel the same way there is nothing you can do about it. It stinks but it is true - you have no control over her feelings.
Try learning a little more about the disorder:
http://www.bipolardisorder.com/understanding/understanding.jsp?reqNavId=1
2007-02-17 19:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by Rabbit 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although you might not to break up maybe it's time?
If you giving her "attitude" pissed her off that much then maybe that's a sign that the relationship should come to a close.
I know that's not what you wanted to hear but it's my honest opinion. You should reevaluate how things are going in your relationship.
2007-02-17 19:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by GCTA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes order two dozen roses and a bottle of wine to her house. Have a note saying you really are sorry.If that doesn't work nothing will.
2007-02-17 19:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey thankz for your advice.
but to help you i think you should break up with her! girls like that dont diserve guys like you!
you sound so nice and caring i just read through some more of your questions and you really really do diserve way better!!!
good luck ;)
2007-02-17 19:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by jess98gum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, what i would do, might hurt your wallet, honestly. go out and buy her something that explains everyfeeling you have for her. A necklace, flowers, choclates, whatever. What it is isnt the point, the point is taht it can be a constant reminder of your lvoe for her. For instance, i gave my g/f one of my guitar picks on a necklace, and told her that id be with her as long as shed haev it on. Thats what i did, idk.. try it out.
2007-02-17 19:56:48 · answer #6 · answered by Dan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
is it SEX that you want????
2007-02-17 19:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by cute as a button!.♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋