My best friend likes a guy who is involved with another girl. She can't get over him even after he told her that him and his girlfriend have an open relationship. She feels as though this is the end of the world. what do I tell her to mae the pain less bad. This is really new ground for me, as I have only ever been with one man, and I am still with him. Please anyone with advice please help.
2007-02-17 11:08:02 · 4 answers · asked by Zig 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell your Friend, that she needs to enroll in my Course, called, Love 101. It has One Class? and you don't graduate, until you are actually in Love. It states that "Real Love" suppose to come from the heart. If it's offered from any other part of the Body? it's gonna fail. We think of Love with our Eyes, (Good Looks) We think of Love with our Head, (Fear of loneliness). We think of Love with our Crotch, (`nuff said). But if you listen to your Heart? You're gonna know when it's the right time. But it has to be a Two-Way Signal. If you don't have his Heart, talk to Yours? It's gonna disconnect, like anything Electrical. `Cause Love is suppose to be the Spark of Life. I hope she can Graduate, soon.
2007-02-17 11:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by Goggles 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When someone starts to develop feelings for another person, they are likly to be blinded by the situaion and they will not be able to think logically. As a friend you should act as her solid ground and bring her back to reality. She is attracted to a man who is involved with someone else in an open relationship. Chances are, if she gets involved with him he'll want to have an open relationship with her and your friend probably wants something exclusive. Some men are great as friends but not good as a partner, so she needs to take that into consideration. THere's nothing you can do but listen to her and bring her back to reality by stopping her form doing anyhting that could potentially harm herself. She will be devastated because she's not with this man, but she will soon realize that it is not worth getting involved with and with due time, she will find osmeone better.
2007-02-17 19:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend to feel that pain! this is not the end of the world or any body elses world!
The next time she gets involved with a man thats allready taken,Tell her to remember that same exact pain she felt last time.Point blank,DONT GO FOR MEN THAT ARE TAKEN(in other words she needs to find a man of her own!!!other wise she has a mental problem,going after other womens men.She might need to hook up with a physichiatrist.
2007-02-17 19:25:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hook her up wit me
2007-02-17 19:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by wassup 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋