my met my first love at school...but when we frist started talking his first love broke his heart really bad...and the way he view girls is different...he dont want to put his heart out there becuz of the pain it cost him the first time...but i was there when it happen...and we use to talk late at night talking about what had happen...and how he felt like it was starting to change him...later on as time when on, i started to fall 4 him and the same 4 him...i wanted to b that girl to show him that i wasnt gonna do him like that i was different from s first love...but trying to cinvince somebody that is toooo damn hard...becuz he is difficult person to convinve...he started to change to a person who just didnt trust people...and that cause us to breAk up...i kn he really love me...i guess he's afraid just as much iam...i dont kn what to do can somebody help...
2007-02-17 11:03:22 · 7 answers · asked by pain&pleasure 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For the same reason girls are afraid to open their hearts after their first love breaks it. Who likes being hurt and the pain makes us scared to try again. Hopefully, we all give love another shot but sometimes it takes time. You can't push someone into love, unfortunately, if you want him you'll just have to wait 'til he is ready. Or you can move on. No easy choice.
2007-02-17 11:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by MI 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will heal all wounds, however its hard to trust after being heartbroken....its the fear of it happening all over again. no matter how many times you tell him your not like other girls i wouldnt do that to you, I'm sure you have told him something along those lines, anyways its hard for a guy to believe......and on top of that i have been heartbroken before and gotten over it the next girl come along and tell me the same stuff Im not like other girls i would never hurt you....blah blah blah.....4 or 5 months down the road guess what happens??
then on the other hand he may be scared to ruin the friendship by going into a relationship with you.
2007-02-17 11:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard enough for guys to open their hearts.....but once it is broken.....it can take a long time to mind. I loved this girl so much.....took her to prom, and she had sex with her ex in his jeep, then came back and took pics with me. I didn't find out until a week later. SUCKS! I am still stinging fromt that....and that was 10 years ago.
2007-02-17 11:07:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a similar situation as him. When you don't put your heart out there you don't get hurt when things fall apart, that is why we do it. All you can do for him is reassure him that it is not going to be like that and let him slowly open up.
2007-02-17 11:09:29 · answer #4 · answered by Pablo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because no one likes to do the same thing that that cost them pain the fist time a 2nd time just give him time and be there 4 him
2007-02-17 11:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.....blah, blah, blah.....it is just teenage crap....leave the poor guy alone and pull in your claws, sweetie.
2007-02-17 11:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once bitten twice shy babe...
2007-02-17 11:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by Bobbie4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋