OK for my girlfriend to hang out with her ex?

Question

I love my girlfriend to death. But she does some things that just makes me upset. She likes to go out to dinner or hang out with her ex b/f the guy she dated right before me. I told her i feel uncomfortable about them hanging out. but she thinks i'm ust insecure and theres nothing wrong with the situation. am i over reacting?

Answer 1

No.. I'm a female and I don't think you're overreacting at all. I would be devastated if my man was hanging with his ex girl. You should ask her how she would feel if you did this to her? I think she'd be hurt and very jealous.. if not, there's a problem here. Be clear and let her know that you really care for her and that you don't approve of her hanging with her ex.. it's just not right. Especially if they're going to dinner and things like that.. It's not right at all. She's YOUR girl, not his. I'm hoping you two do the same things together and that she's not spending too much time with him. If it doesn't fly with her I think you should confront him too and let him know something. Good luck.

Answer 2

No you're not over reacting and i think that's very suss if she hangs out with her ex all the time. She should be hanging out with you! I think you should tell her it needs to stop otherwise you'll leave. If she doesn't choose you then you know that there's more going on than what she's letting on! You should just start hanging out with some of your female mates and see how she feels about it. If you dont have any just pretend that you are and see if it even phases her. But i would be very worried if i were you!

Answer 3

I don't think you are over reacting, if you were to do and hang out with your ex I am most certain she would have a hang up about it. Just let her know that it isn't that you don't trust her, you don't trust him. Good luck.

Answer 4

You are not over reacting and if she really cared for you she would respect how you feel about it and not do it. They must still have something going on and she wants both of you, so she is trying to play it like you are over reacting when you are not. You don't have to be uncomfortable you can find someone who values you alot more and wont play with your heart.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Dude thats like the worst thing which can ever happen.. Its not right.. I would kill my gf if she did something like dat.. Just ask yourself one question is your gf the faithful type and would she cheat on you... I read somewhere that 60% of all women who cheat do it with their Ex's.. Be careful

Answer 7

I wouldnt be havin that, sorry.she needs to respect you enough at least not to go with him alone if it makes you uncomfortable. does she ask you if you want to hang out too? if you like the guy i wouldnt see anything wrong with all hanging out together if you were comfortable with that, but alone, no way.

Answer 8

no u r not over reacting,there is no way man is hanging out alone w/any of his ex's,stand your ground.

Answer 9

no ur right and ur not over reacting tell her tht ur serious and thought about it for awhile and tht u don't like her hanging out with him so much...then if she don't take u seriously then she might be cheating on u

Answer 10

depends, on if she has feelings or not for the guy still..personally i think all girls still have feelings for their ex's but if you trust her enough then it should be okay.