i woke up this morning from a phone call from my girlfriend. We got into a HUGE argument last night in which i went a little crazy and screamed at her pretty badly. She was crying. Now all of a sudden she phoned me this morning telling me she was bringing my stuff she had of mine back to my house which was a sweatshirt and a play station 2 game....i told her it was fine I'd get it later there was no need to give me my stuff back. i told her i was still asleep and she got nasty with me and told me she'd leave it on my front steps...She came over dropped my stuff off handed it to my sister who woke me up to give it to me. I took it went back to sleep she called me about 2 hours later and asked me if we were still hanging out on Monday then told me she needed to have a "serious" conversation with me on Monday. She then asked if we were still "together" or not. I'm SO CONFUSED!! What is going on???
2007-02-17 10:51:46 · 11 answers · asked by Mike T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I haven't called her. My guy friend is down for the weekend. I feel bad i told her not to call me last night because the guys were here. I think she got upset by this. I just didn't feel like dealing with her drama at the moment. And all this is -is a bunch of drama!! I want to call her after the guys leave which will be tomorrow night...is this wrong??
ALSO
also...after asking me that i haven't heard from her since 12:00 this afternoon. Except that her friend got into an accident and she was in the car. She told me she was fine sent me some pictures and that was the last i heard from her. And that was around 12:00
2007-02-17 10:53:17 · update #1
Go talk to her if you want to keep her as a friend or girlfriend, it sounds like she really needs it and you're kinda being insensitive and I bet she's just as confused as you.
2007-02-17 10:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberly K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so you and her should not have had a screaming match last night. That is never cool. Still, she overreacted by bringing your things back. Her back and forth drama, which IS what this is, just shows she lacks the maturity to make a relationship with you or any guy work. If you choose to be with her, then to diffuse her still scheming and imagining mind (because that is likely what she is doing at this moment), you can call her to tell her that you are hanging out with your guy friends and that you and her can have your "serious conversation" on Monday if she wants to. When she asks if you two are still "together", simply tell her what you said in your question - that you are confused and don't know what to say. That will get her imagination going and who knows WHAT she will do with that piece of information, but it doesn't matter. She thrives on drama. How she reacts to you acting like a normal person will be the indicator you need to decide for yourself if this girl is even worth it. Good luck!
2007-02-17 19:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her. Apologize for getting a little crazy and screaming at her. Then tell her you think you need back off from her so you can mature and to learn about anger management. Then go do it.
Screaming is never the right thing to do. Work on this problem first before you try to have any kind of meaningful relationship.
2007-02-17 18:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by voodooacrobat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
darlin' don't be confused she still likes you and wants to be with you. her ego is bruised i think. show a little compassion, you did yell at her afterall... what is she supposed to think? I understand about the guys and her drama but give her a call if you want to continue the relationship and tell her youre glad she's ok after the accident. let her talk about the accident. tell her you do want to see her monday (if in fact you do) but the guys are in town and youre hanging out with them tonight. if you don't care to continue the relationship, call her, make arrangements to see her monday and tell her it's over. the ball's in your court 'cause she still wants you no matter what stuff she gave back to you.
2007-02-17 19:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by sonata 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is going on is immaturity and disgraceful behavior. This relationship is going no where. Why in the world would you want to put up with this? Tell this chic to buzz off and get your life together and decide what kind of a relationship that will work for you and work towards that.
2007-02-17 18:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her and ask her to come over, and talk. If the yelling continues, its better face to face. But I must tell you that people who argue this much when you are supposed to be in love, do not et any better after "I do" has been spoken. She wants to controll you. Do you want that?? Love from Norway
2007-02-17 19:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by unanski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with the guys let her cool off and once they leave go have that talk with her and listen to what she has to say and if you don't like it then dump her or if she hints she is going to dump you then do it first. just remember this isn't easy for her either but if you like all she usually does and you like her on a normal bases then don't let a good thing go but don't stress till the guys are gone.
2007-02-17 19:10:00 · answer #7 · answered by juicyjunebug14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you can stay with her if you want a 24/7 soap opera, with no commercial breaks...my advice is to dump the teenage drama and find a real woman.
2007-02-17 18:55:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a life before you get a girl friend
2007-02-17 19:01:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is playing head games
2007-02-17 18:56:58 · answer #10 · answered by wendzgrl2002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋