i'm 19 and in college and it seems as if girls dont like good guys for some reason. i mean, i'm nice and good looking and all but i try to do a lot of positive things in my life and it seems as if girls dont like that...it's almost as if they'd rather have a bad boy who they know will break their heart later. why?
2007-02-17 10:46:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The 'bad boy' acts like a man, and that attracts girls. 'Good' guys are typically 'nice guys' and they don't act like men. They just shower girls with attention and believe it or not, girls don't like that.
2007-02-17 10:49:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls don't know a good thing when they see it. Trust me, more often than not, a girl would chose the good guy over the bad guy-- it's just hard for them to get a good guy because bad guys are the ones that are usually "hitting on" them. Good guys tend to be more reserved and shy when it comes to love.
2007-02-17 18:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by Friend 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because when a guy is really, really nice to a girl she seems him as desperate. Most girls have low self esteem, and poor self images. So if all of a sudden a guy starts treating her really nice, and acting like she is wonderful, the girl thinks, whooooaaaaah, what is wrong with him that he likes me?
Ah, the female mind...I do really think this is what you are seeing.
2007-02-17 18:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by kiddo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true.. Don't worry.. the "bad boys".. will end up fat and bald working in some low end job.. you finish school and will be driving a nice car etc.. It always works out better later in life.. not so much when your younger. Lot's of women who do like bad boys wake up after years of hurt, cheating, lies. .you'll be fine..
2007-02-17 18:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess some girls are just like that. I prefer the nice guys though. If a girl can't accept you for who you are then she ain't worth being with. Don't ever change for anyone.
2007-02-17 18:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its true because the bad guys are exciting and not afraid of practicly anything. if they r a good guy tht is like all teachers pet then wut would you even talk about with them being afraid of eeverything? also there is a good/bad boy type to maybe you should try it. when teachers are around, thts good boy time, but once there gone, its ok to be tht bad boy type as you say. thts y .
2007-02-17 19:44:46 · answer #6 · answered by luv_ya_so_much_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u kidding? good guys are the best .....lol perhaps u should be more out going .....cuz like people may thing u are too good to be true but if u are truely a good guy be more proactive and ask a girl out and stuff ..........good guys are hard to find lol
personally i like good guys but in college its hard to find good guys cuz most are too flirty and wild lol haha
2007-02-17 18:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls do like good guys but there is not many out there
2007-02-17 18:50:36 · answer #8 · answered by wendzgrl2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm... thats weird. maybe they do like you but think you're way to good. who knows. but i sure love sweet guys sure they can have a mean side to them.
;)
2007-02-17 18:54:57 · answer #9 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some are to nerdy or too into books and not into love... mabe i think
2007-02-17 18:50:10 · answer #10 · answered by aznsexygirl_16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋