This boy was my first proper realtionship, it lastest three months wich may not seem a long time but in those three months I gave him everthing and constantly tried to please him. I loved this boy so much and was absolutley devestated when he broke up with me on the phone and gave me no explantion. So anyway i cry, get angry the usual ect. and then i move on get a new realtionship but that ends fast as i know im still in love with my ex. Dure in the whole time after the break up (even whilst i was dating the new boy) he played mind games with me through text and msn getting my hopes thinking he was going to ask for me back and makeing me sound pathetic by grovelling to him. In the end i read up on this and decided it wasnt the right way to get him back so i blocked and deleted him on msn, deleted his number and egnored him. soon enough he came back to me and asked me back out. Everything was great but then today he ended it again with no explanation. I love him but should i forget him?
2007-02-17 10:40:14 · 13 answers · asked by Innocent fairy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES!!! Have done the same thing take a few months getting over him and avoid him at all cost until you are ready it going to take time but there is no point keep getting back with him because he is going to keep treating you like a doormat.
2007-02-17 10:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by gaulde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him...u sound like a nice girl and u don't deserve this kind of crap from someone so ego centric i mean he is obviously using u for his own benefits like he likes to see u suffer and he thinks that no matter what he does u will always be there for him like a love sick puppy .....so now call him and tell him he is a bastard for being mean to u and delete him for ur life .....u know what? there will be a better guy out there for u and well for the sake of love u keep giving but u get nothing in return except being hurt every time, don't bother with it move on and find someone who will love u in return
best of luck
2007-02-17 10:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly before everything you may desire to confirm for your self why you cheated on him in the 1st place! secondly in case you nevertheless love him and it no longer jus considering which you lost him and your worried he's going to detect somebody else then you definately might desire to bypass and apologised to him and clarify why you achieved it, despite if it replaced into considering which you the place uncertain the type you felt in the relationship or simply by fact there replaced into some thing incorrect in the relationship and you took a incorrect turn you may desire to tell him the actuality! i no its annoying and at times whilst human beings cheat it doesnt continuously advise that they the place jus being a ***** wierd to declare besides the undeniable fact that it coulda jus been an twist of destiny. call him on the telephone or connect up with him head to head and a minimum of get the apology throughout the time of to him as that could sparkling alot of issues up despite in case you dont come back jointly in line with danger have a raffle of staying pals i wish it works out for you.
2016-10-02 07:43:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should forget him, I know it may be hard at the time but you will get over him, Go and have a bit of fun we all deserve that, The right man will come along eventually,
2007-02-17 11:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by Janet C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! you absolutley should. He is playing around with you. A piece of advice next time don't fall too hard for guys. They will only take advantage of you. Be secure in yourself and I'm sure something better will come along.
2007-02-17 10:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by mora fan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The situation you a currently in must be making you feel really vulnerable.
The best advice I can give you here is, to repeat your own words back to you 'forget him'.
Of course that's easily said.
Here's something to consider that maybe will serve to help you with time to forget him.
My ex did the very same to me. We dated for a couple of months I fell in love, he dumped me. I moved on, he got me back, we split a couple more times (in the first year) the pattern repeated during the second...
Eventually he decided that he loved me. We got married. He then started to hit me, I stayed! He continued to emotionally and physically abuse me for another 15 years.
I eventually left him 3 years ago, I met and fell in love with the complete opposite of my ex, a decent human being!
Guys like my ex are controllers, they want the control that they can get once they find the person who will let them!
It sounds to me, that your ex is exactly that, he wants you on his terms.
Please go and find a guy who will love and respect you.
GOOD LUCK
2007-02-17 11:01:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lizzo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget him you deserve better and over time he will realize what a huge mistake he has made.
You are probably only still young (not ancient like me!!!!!) so don't rush into things and the right one will come along one day, maybe when you are in college.
2007-02-17 10:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by footynutguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont love him, how can u when he treats you so badly. get your hair done go out and have a good time , and when he contacts you which he probably, will ignore him.only be with a guy if he makes you feel better about yourself, if he makes you feel insecure hes not the right one...good luck...you only have one life, enjoy it with the people who care, dont waste it on loosers
2007-02-17 10:49:26 · answer #8 · answered by karen a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on, he is not worth all the tears. he has come back once and you forgave him , if you keep forgiving him he will keep on doing it. Break ups are hard but new relationships are better and you deserve better.Good luck sweetie
2007-02-17 11:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three strikes and your outta there!
2007-02-17 10:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋