i met my boyfriend three years ago i was homeless.he got me on feet we now have a home with two children.he told me everything would be okay.i never caught him with a girl but now i know becausehe does'nt come home anymore and he gave me an std.how do i let him go i thought he was the one
2007-02-17 10:38:19 · 6 answers · asked by NATASHA P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you're not ready to kick him to the curb after giving you an STD, who knows. Cheating is one thing, but spreading a disease is on a whole new level. Just go, and get it over with.
2007-02-17 10:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men who say they are ready to commit and really aren't are only trying to make sure they don't lose a good thing. Sad, but true. After my divorce I met a man who meant the world to me at the time. He told me he loved me and even talked about marriage. We later broke up & when I asked him why he told me he loved me when he clearly did not, he said "guys just say that sometimes to get what they want". I treated him like a king and he used me. I found someone else a year later and he would never do this to me. All I can say is that I'm sorry this guy did this to you. It's horrible. The guy is a cad. I know it hurts when you think someone is the one and it turns out they are not. It might take a while to get over this guy. Still, you HAVE to look out for yourself and your children. You have enough cause to be able to obtain custody of your kids because of his lack of moral fiber and the fact that he gave you an STD as a result of him playing around. A judge might not think it would be good for your kids to be placed with a father who could be bringing various women into the home. I'd find someone to stay with if you aren't able to be on your own right now, and the first opportunity you have to leave, you should leave. Then I'd petition the court for custody and child support. Sounds harsh, but trying to make it work when he had such disregard for you that he would cheat on you and give you an STD says he is bad news. You deserve better. Since you have been homeless before, you could check into some social service agencies to see if there are homeless programs which can help you leave this guy without having to be homeless again. I wish you all the best. I'm truly sorry for your pain. I can promise that you will get through this, but it will be hard at first. Just hang in there, know that life DOES get better, and that you deserve to be treated better than this. Hang in there!
2007-02-17 18:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have had the intentions that was pure when he started out in this with you. This does not give him the right to do what he did to you and the children. Some people..men or women are selfish and think about their feelings and disregard everything else. Do not get discouraged with this..there is other men out there that will appriciate you and treat you right..Go get yourself treated and hold your head up high!
2007-02-17 18:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go get a nice sexy man for yourself and make him beat your other husbands face with his fist. Don't worry, just take it one step at a time. and about the STD, get check ups. God has a funny way of making things work out.
2007-02-17 18:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by redpinkredx3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like an idiot. Poor you and your poor children. Hope everything goes ok. I hope you have good family and friends who can help you through this. And I'm sure you can find his fave outfit and rip it up or burn it. That would be fun. Sorry I will miss it.
2007-02-17 18:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by kelly R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plain and simple, they are selfish and they commit so that knowone else will take there spot .
2007-02-17 18:41:34 · answer #6 · answered by imbossy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋