im having problems looking my crush in the eyes. i did awhile ago but kinda got lost in them, and now im afraid to. anyone else have this problem?
2007-02-17 09:54:11 · 11 answers · asked by marisaB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aww thats cute that you are nervous around your crush however it can be a detriment to your friendship or association! Trust me, I know first hand, it can be hard! Do not be scared to look!
Maybe you could just tell him he has amazing eyes if you find it difficult to talk to him while looking at them...I usually look at first and then glance away and then look back at him quickly so he wont think I am disinterested. Eye contact represents respect at least in the US so it helps but dont let it get you tongue tied! lol good luck!
2007-02-17 10:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by ♥CJ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we're embarrassed and don't want her to know. We think that by looking at her she'll get intimidated/turned off, or think we're a creep or something, at least that's what I always worry about because I hear so many women complain, "this guy was looking at me and it was really creepy". I always hoped that when a girl noticed I looked away that she would figure out I liked her but that never happens.
2016-05-23 23:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the exact same problem. i used to like this guy and everytime i saw him, i wud pretend to not notice him cus i was to afraid to look him in the eyes and get caught by him...its a weird thing but i think once you become closer/ more familiar with that person..you lose that fear.... neways.. good luck =)
2007-02-17 09:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look him straight in the eye hunnie! You want him to know you're interested if he is too! It will show you're confident! Dont try to keep him guessing to long. He might creap out of your hands.
2007-02-17 10:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by emily s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. just talk to your crush and concentrate on the face but not to hard.
2007-02-17 09:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by BKool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that problem once. My suggestion is to try to focus on the other person and their feelings rather than on yours at that moment. Otherwise, it might get too nerve-racking.
2007-02-17 09:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by seaturtle26j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, when me and my bf were talking about dating, there was A LOT of eye contact, and it never once bugged me. And normally it does.
2007-02-17 09:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say a staring contest might loosen things up for you :P
2007-02-17 09:59:58 · answer #8 · answered by Julia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, sooooo many girls have crushes on me and some of them cant lookat me in the eye. id just be like, "ey, yo, its ok to look at me in the eye"
2007-02-17 09:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You kidding?....i'm 43 and still can't handle it unless i'm drinking,,,lol
2007-02-17 09:57:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋