How bad dose sex hurt the first time???

Answer 1

Every man fantasizes about being with a virgin sometime in their life. I'm no exception, but the likelihood of doing so diminished considerably as I became older. Then I met my wife. I was her first, and perhaps our experience can help you.

My wife is 30, I'm 40 and we married in November. In her culture, it's more common to remain pure until married. We both talked in detail about "the moment" before our wedding. The discussions and everything else increased the expectations of our honeymoon night into a great fantasy. The fantasy didn't happen as expected.

I had been with more women than I can remember, but I had never been with a virgin. So, I was just as much a virgin as she was in this situation. Although it was an incredible night for the both of us, it was also very painful for both of us. It was very difficult for me to get inside her, and she didn't know what to do to let me inside. We struggled for hours until the mission was finally accomplished. It was not the best sex I ever had, because making love with her became better and better after that. She is my love goddess now, and I can't imagine being with anyone else ever again.

My advice to you is don't give it up to just anyone. Make sure the guy cares for you and will let you take your time without pressure. You cannot take it back once you've done it, so make your first time as best as you can make it.