My girlfriend cries whenever she ask me if I see her as being a wife and I tell her that I wouldn't want to marry someone who's bisexual. Before we started dating she was only into females, but I persuaded her to talk to me. Am I wrong for not wanting to marry someone who's bisexual? Why wouldn't you want to marry someone who's bisexual?
2007-02-17 09:42:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi -
I wouldn't have a problem with marrying someone who is bisexual as long as I knew that they wouldn't cheat on me.
If she is attracted to girls, big deal. Don't blame her, you are attracted to girls as well. If you get caught looking at another woman, she can't beat you up about it.
But anyways, I think if my spouse was bisexual, I would not really care, as long as I knew they wouldn't act on their urges and go out there and have sex with another woman.
This help?
Good luck with everything.
2007-02-17 09:46:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you do not want to marry someone who is bi and this is how you feel and you are strong with your feelings on bisexuality, why did you go out with her in the first place? Good for the goose but not the gander? Why would you not want to marry someone whom you are in love with no matter what? You are hunged up on the bisexuality. I suggest you break this up with her and tell her that you like her but she is not the "marrying" type. This will hurt but this will be the truth and she can go on to someone who will accept her for who she is. YOU persuaded her to talk to you. She then liked YOU. NOW, it seems like because you knew from the get go what she was about, now YOU are against HER. You are a F-UCKING hypocrite. It will be best if you two are NOT together.
2007-02-17 09:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it safe. You still have to live with your parents, if you tell them. Are they mature enough to handle that sort of information, or will they overact and freak out? Coming out isn't something that's required for everyone who isn't straight. Actually I think it's a kind of discrimination to push the idea that everyone who isn't straight has to "come out". There's not really a reason for everyone in your life to know. If you want to do that, make sure you can do it safely. Otherwise, it might be better to wait until you are living on your own. This is so you family can't pressure you into acting how they want by using where you live as leverage.
2016-05-23 23:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to answer you with another question, why stay with someone you don't plan to marry? If she is your girlfriend and has been faithful as YOUR girlfriend (meaning no outside relationships, homosexual or bisexual or otherwise), then why wouldn't you marry her? Wouldn't you expect the same thing from a wife as from a girlfriend? If not, you are wasting both of your time and hurting someone else in the process.
2007-02-17 09:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by butterflywndr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be rather young? But whatever. It sounds as if you aren't ready to marry anyone really. Just because I wouldn't want to marry someone who is bisexual doesn't mean there aren't others who would jump at the chance. If you want a 'straight' relationship, move on. And by the way, in case you haven't learned yet, girls cry when they want their way. And then they laugh when they do. Remember that.
2007-02-17 09:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by rare2findd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew she was bi-sexual and you persuaded her to talk to you and she fell in love with you. You knew from the beginning that you did not want to marry someone who was bi and now look what you have done. You are cruel and selfish. How do you fix this? By breaking someones heart because you were so selfish and curious just to see if you could get her to lean your way. Let her go, learn from this experience and don't mess with peoples feelings like this again. You owe her a Big Time Apology.
2007-02-17 09:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want to marry a bisexual person because I wouldn't be able to fulfill all of his needs and desires that he would get from a man. There is more of a likelihood to cheat so I think you are right for not wanting to marry her.
2007-02-17 09:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by His Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being bisexual shouldn't make a difference in a monogamous relationship. If you love her, and trust her, then her sexual preference shouldn't matter. If you don't feel like she can remain faithful to you, then follow your instincts. It sounds like you may be using her bisexuality as an accuse. Maybe there is another reason why you don't see her as your future wife.
2007-02-17 09:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by melissasstocks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No absolutely not --- you're not wrong for wanting to marry a heterosexual. No matter how you look at it cheating is cheating whether it's with a man or woman and to have a chance at a lasting, fulfilling, loving marriage it's imperative that not only is there trust but commitment - only to each other.
2007-02-17 09:51:39 · answer #9 · answered by GrnEyedBlondeSwede 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never understood bisexual,I think you have to be gay or straight. I think if she was only into women then she is gay.If you married her and had kids as it seems that is what she would like.She will in time go back to having relationships with women.If you can't handle that,then you are right in not marrying her.
2007-02-17 09:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋