2007-02-17 09:41:59 · 24 answers · asked by kitkat10487 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A 13 year old should not have a "love life". They should get crushes and be curious but they are too young to be seriously involved with anyone especially on a physical level.
2007-02-17 09:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by Starshine 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYY!!!
Dang, might as well start your love life when you're born if you think that way. Geez... I did not have a love life until after I was 18 - and that depending what do you mean by "love life" sex? In that case, I'll raise the bar. I didn't have any until I was 32, and married. And... I didn't miss out on anything! For real! I am not sayig everyone has to wait that long, or anything, I just say what I did... And I am enjoying life as always. It depends on what kind of person you are. I am a happy kind. Everything is good and beautifdul in its time. At 13, it'sa premature to have sex. Puppy love is ok, but remember that's just infatuation. It can or can't grow into live, but don't be so rigged into it, your life hasn't even started yet. My secret was that I wanted to get a good education, and was so determined about it, that I didn't let nothing get in the way. No boys. That doesn't mean I didn't long for it, sometimes more than other times, but I have a gazzillion of friends, and that was fine. I actually had more boys as friends than girls, and that was ok too... I really got to know myself well before I got married, and I am having the time of my life with the man I love and I don't regret anything in my life. I hope youi get some perspective. Good luck. I know it's a drag waiting to grow up, but it just hapends one day at a time, not any faster. And we've all been there, so we understand... kiddo!
2007-02-17 09:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by Pivoine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a relationship at 13 isn't inevitably undesirable. And the actual question is do i comprehend love? that's a query only you are able to answer for your self. Having a relationship at a youthful age would be puzzling and on occasion stressful. possibly you do no longer know precisely what love is or in case you quite comprehend in case you like him or no longer. In time you will comprehend. yet as on your question i do no longer think of your too youthful to adventure having a boyfriend.
2016-11-23 15:31:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have a boyfriend until maybe 16, or maybe even 17. Trust me, you don't even know the meaning of having a boyfriend at 13, whether or not you have one.
2007-02-17 09:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by Felicity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOT AT ALL!!!!! I am 14 and I still haven't had a boyfriend. I am waiting until High School when I can have a mature relationship. I am sure that you will find somebody some day that you want to be with. Don't rush it.
2007-02-17 10:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by ~ ♥ ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your love life is not over. You are in your first year as a teenager. Enjoy yourself as a kid for now. You can begin dating much later and things will turn out much better.
2007-02-17 09:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by rubyred 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no. im 14 and i haven't had one. a person i know met the love of her life at age 18, and they've been married a while, so your love life stands a chance yet =)
2007-02-17 09:45:49 · answer #7 · answered by blue print 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, but if you've had a boyfriend by the age of 13, it means you're a s-lut.
2007-02-17 12:06:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what!! no way!you can be 18 and never had a boyfriend, that doesn't mean your love life is over, it means it hasnt started.
2007-02-17 09:44:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No...such immaturity!!! I didn't have a real boyfriend until 18/19, when I was mature enough to handle a relationship.
2007-02-17 09:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by His Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋