im bored sad and lonely i have to one to talk to and me and my friends r fighting....i have a major wound on my hand so i havent been able to play my guitar or bass for days, or skateboard, mostly nothing...what can i do to "cheer" myself up, i feel depressed and i just want to lock myself out from the world i have to no one to open up to and need new friends...what can i do?
o and im 14 and none of my friends live near me anymore they all moved plus i mostly hang out with the guys because the girls think im to much of a tomboy
2007-02-17 09:35:17 · 8 answers · asked by female football player 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It will work it's self out.
Good Luck
2007-02-17 09:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Typical teenage drama. Everything is soo gloomy, poor me, pity party kind of thing. You need to realize that a lot of what you feel is part of your growing up. Most of all it's hormones. You need to activelly get a social life. Try to find some people that are less fortunate than you. You'll get a real perspective. Time to make new friends. Rather than wait for people to befriend you, be a friend to the ones that have nobody to befriend them.
At your age I was playing my guitar in Nursing Homes. I just wanted to spread some joy. Life is too short to spend it bored or depressed. Instead of wallowing in self pity, DO something constructive. Sorry, it's the truth, I don't do sugar coating. Get up and shake all that drama off! You'll mature well, and you'll be a better person for it. Good luck to you!
2007-02-17 17:43:11 · answer #2 · answered by Pivoine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off lighten up . go get a really romantic movie and watch that . then watch a comedy one that always makes you laugh .
the other things you can do are go to the local pool and swim and sauna and meet new people there lots of fun .
go to the pet store and ask to pat one of the puppies . its impossible to not be happy with a puppy in your arms.
answer some sex questions on here that will improve your mood or at least change it for an hour or two.
you should also count yourself lucky you have friends that do it while you watch they must like you and think your hot.
bake some cookies.
go for a walk .
dream sit and think about a field of flowers and summer and all things wonderful water falls all that stuff .
then write a song
when your hand is better if you cant compose on paper as i do then attempt to compose music as you play to go with the lyrics you wrote.
treat yourself to some fun stuff kid stuff play with your old toys be a little girl and have some fun .
also forgive your friends and make up.
2007-02-17 18:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you should start acting like a young lady and make friends. Also why don't you watch a movie that's funny and it will cheer you up. Also just because your injured doesn't mean you shoudllock yourself away. But why not go to the movies, or to the park, go window shopping or just chat with a friend like me anytime, just IM me.
2007-02-17 17:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg same here!!! look at my last question, that will explain everything. im also 14. ya. i had a horrible day. and im like a tomboy too lolz. my fav sport is dirtbiking and the girls think that is super wierd. so ya. all my friends are guys too. =]
2007-02-17 17:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by cierra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
join activities at your school or find some volunteer work within your own community
2007-02-17 17:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
have a beer and a cigarette
2007-02-17 17:39:17 · answer #7 · answered by EFF U 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
go out and PARTYYYYYYY YEAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
2007-02-17 17:41:44 · answer #8 · answered by lagunachic07 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋