Okay, heres the deal; I've known this 1 guy for a year now, I have very strong feelings for him, and he feels the same way for me. I've never cared so much for someone, but theres 1 little problem, hes engaged to another girl... You see, He left me months because he was afraid of getting too deep into things with me, and when he came back, he lied about why he had left. I knew this right away, and I was very upset with him for lying to me(I...kind of have an isuse with that...) Anyhow, I blocked him from my life, for more reasons then just the lies, but I couldn't take having so many unanswered questions, so I contacted him again. He explained things to me, told me he still had strong feelings for me, but because of all the time that we spent apart, he kinda met up wiht an old friend of his, they got togather and now they're engaged. But he and I just can't seem to get rid of these feelings we have for each other. I really need some advice here... Please, What should I do?
2007-02-17 09:33:31 · 6 answers · asked by Twili 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A friend of mine is going through a smiler crisis. Unfortunately, she doesn't know what to do nigher. Of course, getting half-wit, non-answer answers, probably doesn't help much. (These people don't deserve the points they're getting...) I mean really, 'your gonna have to fight this', 'WOW!' What kind of answers are those!? And advice, oh please... I'm actually quite sorry for you. These people don't understand half of what your saying. But I do. And the best advice I can give you is this; Get all facts. 10-1 says this girl hes engaged to, is nothing more then a rebound girl. Chances are, since they're old friends, all they'd have to do is catch up on old times and/or lost time, and they'd get together. Just remind him remind him that if it wasn't for you, he even be with this other girl. But remember, if he doesn't treat you like you deserve to be treated, if he doesn't give you the respect you deserve, hes not worth the time your spending on him.
2007-02-21 05:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on. sadly, if he has committed himself to another person, then that says it all, if he couldnt do that before with you he wont in the future. All your doing is hurting yourself if you hold on, and will always wonder if he did come around why he changed his mind and is he seeing someone else behind your back. There is someone better for you out there. someone who will love only you.
2007-02-17 17:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah F 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what MIND GAMES are?Well that is what you 2 are doing with each other.If you like it then keep on playing.Fact: Not many people like Mind Game players.If I where you I would put all that behind Me and move forward down the road of LIFE.
2007-02-17 17:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by Goodfellar 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
leave him.Trust me.Have a new beginning.Dnt do anything stupid or mistakes.If he wanted u thn he wld have not got engaged with some1 else.dnt do it.Its ur life.only the worthy 1 wil not leave u.
2007-02-17 17:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by Deep eyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your going to have to fight this girl
2007-02-17 17:39:41 · answer #5 · answered by Hindu Guy 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
WOW
2007-02-17 17:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by omg 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋