Ok about a month ago I was looking to get into a relationship and there wernt any guys around to date. Now I just baught a new car and Im getting into my work, I have like 3 guys that want to date me. I want to try to beo with one of them I just dont know who to choose. One is a guy that I liked back in middle school, one is a guy that I had a thing with about 6mons ago, and the last one is someone that I met through a friend. They are all great and cute, I just dont know who to pick. Im going to go out on dates with all of them and see how that goes but what if they all 3 go well??? what do I do. DO I pick one or just stay single and work???
2007-02-17 09:31:09 · 13 answers · asked by Content 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pick one
2007-02-17 09:33:54 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are probably more appealing to these guys because you werent looking...you were distracted with the new car...love happens when you least expect it and arent looking.
As far as the guys see which one clicks the best. Go on dates with all of them and see which one interests you the most and choose one that you can see yourself being with like being married. Good father. Someone you can be yourself with and have fun with. You know all those expectations see who would meet them the best.
If all 3 go well...maybe you should get back into your work and see what comes along. Ya know...dont pick any!
2007-02-17 17:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by evie_cooper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have already dated one six months ago....think back, why didn't it work back then? More than likely, it will be the same reason it wouldn't work now. You have to decide if you are wanting something serious or just fun. If it is just fun, why settle for one? If you are really wanting something serious then i suggest taking your time with dating them and if you start noticing little things that bug you or irk you in any way, just know that whatever it is, it will get worse with time, not better and it gives you "notice" to get out before it's too late.
2007-02-17 17:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by butterflywndr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go with just the last guy, get to know him, but let him know you are going to see other guys on dates, because you need to know what you and them want in a relathionship. Never mind the others, unless you know they are not using you for sure, and sometimes thats hard to tell. Start fresh.
2007-02-17 17:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by mybudnoobs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date them all! There is nothing wrong with dating. DATE DATE DATE all of them. Eventually you will begin to feel a stronger connection with one... and from there you will be able to choose. Its not a guessing game. You'll figure out who works the best with you :o)
2007-02-17 17:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by S A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it depends on your age and what you want to do. It might not be a bad idea to focus on work, get promoted, make more money, etc. and then worry about dating after you are more settled.
2007-02-17 17:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by poor_broke_investor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can date all three and then choose. but u gotta think: are they with you just cuz of ur $ or do they really like you? you can casually date and stay single. i think most of all, you should enjoy it and not take it too seriously. but don't break any hearts.
2007-02-17 17:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by ReRe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a trick questions? If they all go well, then you keep all 3. Or keep 2 and send me one.
2007-02-17 17:34:59 · answer #8 · answered by twest_dgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure that if you date all 3 for a while you will find one of them stands out more than the others.
just be honest with them all.
2007-02-17 17:34:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all..do they know about this
Second... get your life going before you can have a serious relationship
2007-02-17 17:35:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick the one that you feel the most comfortable with and that you know will care for you nomatter what. what does your heart tell you?
2007-02-17 17:35:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋