me and this guy hooked up when i was 15(im 21 now) broke up a year later! never kissed went out nothin just talked on the phone. he was into my friend, they dated I got angry. I stopped giving him attention and he would treat me badly! He tried to get back on my goodside which he did! when he was with my friend, he wanted to kiss me, introduce me to his family.He would boast about her and I ignored. I had guys visiting me and I heard that he got really angry and would watch the guys really harsh! H e asked me to visit him I said no go out I said no. Now he has moved out but when he comes to town he asks for me every time. He would ask me if I loved him id never reply though he would tell me he did! did my resistance made him not call me any more? orhe wanted a bootycall and didnt and gave up?Now he lives with his gf we dont no each other and they live pretty far. I sent him a txt asking how are you? his gf saw it and got angry and threw the phone! is it a sign he talks about me still?
2007-02-17 09:27:49 · 3 answers · asked by hershey's kisses 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you two have more feelings for each other than either of you will admit to. Also, you both are giving each other mixed signals because of the mixed feelings you have for each other. A similar thing had happened to me and a good high school friend of mine.
My friend and I were two peas in a pod during high school. We were very close, but never actually dated. All of our friends figured that we would eventually be married to each other one day.
Both of us had moments when feelings ramped up into wanting more than being friends, but this usually happened at the wrong time because the other was in a relationship. There were times when the timing was right, but it felt very awkward to be with her. We had developed a strong friendship, and it became difficult to see her as something beyond that. This went on for years until I met my wife.
My friend was one of the first people I had told about my engagement, and that news didn't go over well with her. She became very upset, started to cry and then had a tantrum. Her feelings for me was much more than I had thought. I love my wife dearly, and I do not have second thoughts about the decision to marry her over my friend. This experience still tells me something that you should do in your situation.
As soon as it is conveniently possible, you and your friend need to have an adult discussion about your feelings for each other. His current girlfriend doesn't and shouldn't have to know about you two getting together for this discussion. As friends, you two should be open up to each other about your feelings and lay it all out. If you two are meant to be, then let fate take it's course. If not, al least you two know where you stand with each other and will become better friends from the experience.
Good luck to you!
2007-02-17 12:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by MojaveDan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy really likes you( well loves you). You guys have been friends since you guys were teens....you seem to be best friends...you guys fight and then talk again. Do u have feelings for him? Ask yourself...and see..why won't u give him a chance and see if it developes.
2007-02-17 09:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was after a booty call..... Forget his *** and move on.
2007-02-17 09:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by Peter P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋