I am so sorry to hear about your mother in law. My mum also died from colon cancer with secondaries in the liver 8 months ago at the age of 60. At the stage your mother in law is the only thing you can do is to pray for her not to suffer anymore. My mother was my best friend and I miss her so very much. She is always in my mind. When my mother was in the stage that she was not eating, or talking any more because of the morphine I used to talk to her a lot telling her that all of us were going to be ok, I used to tell her about the good times we had together and tell her what my kids had been up to during the day, she adored my children. I have 4 kids age 19,16,12 and 5. My oldest started university this last September that was my mums dream and my son has made this come true. My second son has joined the army and is starting tomorrow and I feel so sad that my mum is not here to see him on his first day all dressed up in his smart uniform but God had other plans. When your daughter is older you can always talk to her about her wonderful grandmother and show her photographs of her that is what my brother and sister in law do. My niece was also 3 months old when my mum passed away. I am grateful for all the wonderful times I had with my mum and I am sure she is watching all of us from the beautiful kingdom of heaven. I will pray for your mother in law for her not to suffer and for all of you to be at peace. I pray every day for a cure for all types of cancers. God Bless you and all your family sweetie. If you ever need to talk do not hesitate to email me.
2007-02-18 01:48:00
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answered by superstar68 3
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Unfortunately the 2 people I know who had bowel cancer did not have miracles. Keep in mind, just because you are told she has 2 weeks doesn't make it so. I have known several people with cancer and none of them passed away when they were supposed to. My mother died unexpectedly when she was 47 due to complications from diabetes which we didn't even know that she had so I do know all too well what its like to have children who don't know their grandmother. I get very emotional at times, my mother never saw me get married or have kids. I talk about my mother to my children and show them pictures of her. She will be kept alive through you. Stay strong for your husband and your daughter. Try calling those speciality cancer hospitals and see if you can find the miracle you are looking for. I have heard also of some people that were cured of their cancer from licensed herbalists who know how to cleanse the body of cancers and other toxins. I have heard of a lady who had stage 4 brain cancer who was cured through herbs. You may want to look into that. Good luck and stay strong, I wish you all the best. Also, remember to never leave anything unsaid, as you might regret this later.
2007-02-17 11:01:18
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answered by Michelle 6
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I am very sorry but unfortunately with stage 4 cancer there's isn't much more that can be done. I feel really sorry for you and for her, 59 is too young to die. You need to make a scrap book for your daughter and when she gets older you tell her all about her grandma. You need to be strong to get through this. The irony is that is always seems to happen to the nice people while some miserable old bag is making the family unhappy and will live forever.
2007-02-17 09:29:01
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answered by Mightymo 6
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I am so sorry about your mother in law. I got goose bumps reading about it. Stage 4 is very hard to deal with,espically loved ones. Miracles are always possible. Never give up hope. My mom died from stomach cancer in 1999. I was 15. Two weeks later I found out I was pregnant. I have a son and a daughter now and they never got to meet my mom either. All you can do is tell them about her. When we say prayers at night,we give eskimo kisses for my brother(died at age 27 last march from cancer)and butterfly kisses for my mom. Always keep their memorys alive and close to your heart. God bless.
2007-02-17 11:53:53
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answered by sexygal8321 4
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Hi,sorry to hear about your mother's condition.My family member has used a tea (Flor Essence)that has really helped when he's sick .It wasn't cancer but we read that the tea actually works very well for cancer patients,and it is very safe (can be used for practically everyone,but patients usually takes larger amount)It really was a miracle for our family,and I wish it can help with your mother's situation too.The tea's sold worldwide, US ,Canada ,Japan etc..by Florahealth,you can just check the website to find a store that carries the tea. www.florahealth.com Good Luck .
2007-02-17 13:50:19
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answered by KAs F 1
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You have to be very strong for your daughter and show her pictures and things that remind you of her granny!!! If you do that she'll always be alive!!! Try to remember her how she was b4 the morphine started talking and all the things you loved about this woman, who is clearly very dear to you all!!! She can continue to live through you!!! My love and best wishes to you all x
2007-02-17 08:50:25
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answered by secret_smile4u_only 3
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hi
has your Mom seen a specalist in colon/bowel cancer?=she could have the bowel removed and have a bag on her side= if she is to far gone with her cancer i pray that God will ease her pain There isn,t much other than that you could do
2007-02-17 08:52:21
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answered by caffsans 7
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I am so sorry for your situation and your mother in law's impending death. Please realize that when she passes she will no longer be suffering. I have witnessed my father, stepfather and former father in law all die of lung cancer and it was horrible. God Bless you and your family during this terrible time.
2007-02-17 09:05:51
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answered by ♥ terry g ♥ 7
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Give her Emu oil gel caps, 1 tab every 6 hours. Emu oil kills cancer cells and is safe to take. One should always consult their doctor before trying anything new.
2007-02-17 09:22:16
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answered by Bruce 4
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