i was dating this guy for 3 weeks. and things were going good until i called him today and he asked if i would sleep w/him and i said no so he got mad and dumbed me i cried for hours.
2007-02-17 08:44:10 · 22 answers · asked by ashleigh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Uhh... give it up beeeyatch! or give him bj
2007-02-17 08:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by subra55118 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously things were only "going good" on the surface. In reality the guy was a jerk. 3 weeks isn't very long. Just be glad he showed his true colors sooner than later. Any guy who gets upset that easily and over something like that isn't worth dating.
Now you have to pick yourself up and get on with your life. You did the right thing by refusing to sleep with him. Go you! And something good will deffinatly come of it, whether directly or indirectly, just so long as you stand firm. Don't let guys push you into stuff like that. A good guy wouldn't do that. And I'm sure you want a good guy, right?
2007-02-17 08:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by The Link 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to cry over a jerk! He isn't worth your tears. If he broke up with you because of that after only 3 weeks, he was only there for one thing to begin with! You did the right thing. You'd be crying a lot harder if you had said yes and then ended up pregnant, right? Don't ever let a guy talk you into doing something that you don't want to do or aren't ready for. If he cares about you at all, he will respect your decision and carry on with the relationship. Be glad he's gone!
2007-02-17 08:50:31 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth it. There's not more to it. ANYONE... who goes against your wishes is not worth knowing. You are your own person and You have the right to make your decisions. The only reason you should cry is because you made a bad decision for the past 3 weeks, not because he broke up with you because you wouldn't do something that you didn't want to do.
2007-02-17 08:49:14 · answer #4 · answered by epooji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should grab your closest girl friends and a movie and a pint of Ben & Jerry's ice cream and have a girls night. that guy sucks at life and you should just for get him. If he cant respect you and your body then he deserves no respect back. Keep your head held high and move on. It will be for the better. trust me.
2007-02-17 09:21:48 · answer #5 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts SO MUCH but in the long run, you will be HAPPY that you did not sleep with him! It takes me a long time to get over the guys I actually shared my body and opened myself to rather then most of my boyfriends (who I didn't sleep with) because I didn't share that intimate part of myself with them. You shouldn't be upset because, in a way YOU STOOD UP FOR YOURSELF AND YOU RESPECTED YOURSELF AND YOU REFUSED TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM JUST BE LIKED BY HIM. To be honest, I kind of envy you- with my ex, I wish that I had said "no" to him because whether or not I slept with him he wouldn't have loved me anyway. So give yourself a pat on the back.
2007-02-17 08:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by purringout 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 07:34:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, that guy was so not worth your time! Get over that jerk, he's not worth your tears. He deserves a kick in the groin! (im not suggesting for you to do that though!) Get yourself a new guy who is worth your time, and isn't a jerk like your ex. If any guy breaks up with a girl for her not sleeping with him then he's just stupid!
2007-02-17 08:55:13 · answer #8 · answered by <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should consider thanking him, because your so much better then that. You should never be with a guy like that. Trust me, when you get less upset you'll get over him easily and you'll look back and be thankful.
I'm sorry, some guys are like that.
2007-02-17 08:46:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are better off, going out for 3 weeks is not very long. You made a good choice by not having sex with him. This is his loss, and it is goo that you dont give into peer pressure.
2007-02-17 08:49:30 · answer #10 · answered by Rosie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt be upset. thats a terrible reason to break up with somebody. if thats all he wanted, then let him go and be glad you got out of it after only 3 weeks!
2007-02-17 08:50:04 · answer #11 · answered by D.C. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋