What is wrong with him,he is all mean and saying that I tell him what to do and that he does what ever he feels like,bla,bla,bla...What would you do about it???Thanks
2007-02-17 08:41:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps you need to listen to yourself sometimes. Maybe you come across as bossy. I have a hard time believing he would say this, if there wasn't some truth to it.
2007-02-17 11:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have certain expectations of him that he feels is the same as putting pressure on him? Obviously I don't know the two of you, but whether he's right or wrong, he's apparently feeling like you want him to do stuff even though you don't come right out and say it. Ask him what he's talking about... and ask yourself if you're comfortable being with someone who might not be acting fairly toward you.
2007-02-17 16:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by selena n 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
playin word games? no fun in making you confused. if he says something like that and no basis for it then just say yeah sure ok uh huh bla bla bla
2007-02-17 16:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He must have said it for a reason... Maybe you are bossy or something.
Guys like to feel dominant over girls anyway, it goes waaay back to their caveman dayz so don't worry about it. If hes still going on about it then say to him to point out to you every time you "tell him to do something."
2007-02-17 16:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sit down and have a serious conversation about what the problems are and how to work on fixing them. what you both out of the relationship and if you both can get through the conversation without raising your voices at all then i think things will be ok, if not then i suggest that you both move on.
2007-02-17 16:45:34 · answer #5 · answered by maggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you say is totally true : that being that you never tell him what to do, but he still blames you for doing so, he is projecting his actions unto you . . answer : ask him what the heck is wrong with him?
2007-02-17 16:45:46 · answer #6 · answered by skydancerwi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to him.
No, don't get angry, I'm serious. I don't mean it literally, I mean LISTEN to him, not OBEY him. In other words, don't react, just hear his words and try to interpret the true meaning.
Maybe he's trying to tell you something else - between the lines.
2007-02-17 16:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by John 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a long talk with him he shouldent be blaming you for these types of things
2007-02-17 16:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by Jade L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him your not pointing out the uvieus right but talk to him about it ask him how ur telling him what to do
2007-02-17 16:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you do tell him what do unintentionally or undirectly. you should both sit together and talk about it. ask him to give you examples of when you were demanding and you go from there.
2007-02-17 16:43:48 · answer #10 · answered by sara_s 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋