My girlfreind has a good job and i am unemployed. I do all the housework and shopping. She's getting kinda demanding lately and is always telling me what to do or making me redo some of the housework if she thinks it not good enough. Recently she said that she wears the pants and I should be wearing panties. When I try to talk to her about these things she threatens to throw me out. I like my girlfreind but dont know how to deal with her. What should I do?
2007-02-17 08:40:15 · 11 answers · asked by timmy h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, I applaud that as a man, you stay home and are doing the role that women have done for the longest time. Second, no shes not too bossy. Shes a busy professional woman who expects that you handle the domestic chores to her expectations. I know exactly where she is coming from. You need to pay careful attention to detail when you do housework and shopping because after a busy day at the office, shes going to be too tired to deal with it. So she has every right to make you redo things that youve done wring. Otherwise, how will you learn to do it the right way? I went through the same thing with my husband early in our marriage, but I got him straightend out so that hes prefect with the housework, buys all the right food so he can cook for me, and gets my suits from the dry cleaners. As for the comment about you wearing the panties, maybe thats something you should actually consider. In all seriousness, wearing them for her might appease her and futher define your roles. Thats something ive had my hubby do as well!
2007-02-18 06:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple... get a job then split the duties... Housework, cooking ect... thats all good but also expected if one is home more then the other... If you were working she cant hold that over your head.. If she comes up with some other excuse after that.. call the bluff and move out!
2007-02-17 08:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by John D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with a bit of luck she does no longer advise this, (the pantie ingredient) if so, bypass away. even nevertheless she is bringing domicile the Francis Bacon in the present day does no longer provide her the main appropriate to belittle you're contribution looking after issues on the domicile front. tell her so! in case you enable her run over you, she would be in a position to loose admire for you (top or incorrect) it occurs like that. that is human nature to act out, exceedingly her thinking, you're actually not contributing adequate. in case you're Love is actual, this could be settled quickly or you're resentment will enhance and you the two won't stay to tell the story this relationship.
2016-11-23 15:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by leissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you have achieved true role reversal. She has basically assumed the role of breadwinner, so now you are now taking on the role of homemaker. Until you get a job, your responsibilities are going to include cooking, cleaning, washing, etc.
Sounds like your girlfriend is getting more confident in the role of breadwinner. She has definitely assumed control. You are going to have to decide if you want to accept her as a dominant partner. If not, then you have some decisions to make.
2007-02-18 14:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by L.A. Scene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off u should get a job!!! cuz ur making urslef look like he loser cuz u got no job.Try to discuss with her that ur getting a job and ur tired of taking orders from her.Tell her ur help wit some of the house work but then u want to be working just as well.Tell her off ur making urself look like a loser infront of her.Prove up to her and if she dont like it then leave her sorry ***!!! exscuse my language but she has no right telling u that **** i mean thats rediculose.Make urself look like the MAN OF THE HOUSE.GOOD LUCK
2007-02-17 08:50:38 · answer #5 · answered by stacy_diva_girl619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that yr gf is commanding you on what you should do and what you shouldn't. If you feel that the relationship can workout well in this way, then you can always carry on with the relationship. Otherwise you must be brave and face the facts
2007-02-17 12:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out a bit. Or even, move out completely once she's not home. I mean, come on... she seems to have a 'streak'
2007-02-17 08:46:30 · answer #7 · answered by Gainy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come here to me, I'll take care of you..you're cute
2007-02-17 09:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put on a french maid outfit and get cleaning
2007-02-17 08:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by krissy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all goes downhill from there,
But hey, be thankful, I wish that was me!
2007-02-17 12:02:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋