What is wrong with him,he is all mean and saying that I tell him what to do and that he does what ever he feels like,bla,bla,bla...What would you do about it???Thanks
2007-02-17 08:39:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi,
Just keep it in your mind for the time being if this is the first time. Try to never advise about things to him. If this has happened before just let him know that you never do that! It is good to be open and honest in a relationship. And it is also important to be understood,not misunderstood.Good luck.
2007-02-17 08:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by mildew 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was married to a man for 20 years who always felt threatened by me whenever I would express a different opinion or would dare to have a different way of doing things than him. Bear in mind that I am a very nice person who always tries to please other people & get along as best I can. I have been told I am too nice. So for him to accuse me of trying to have things my way all the time, of trying to boss him around & control the relationship, & of trying to emasculate him by not allowing him to have a say, I was shocked because that was totally opposite of the person I was & am. I divorced him a year ago because he was extremely controlling, emotionally & verbally abusive & he was cruel, both to me & our kids. His tendencies toward this did not make itself obvious until 18 years of marriage. So what I am saying to you is that if you KNOW you are not doing what your boyfriend is saying you are doing, then you are dealing with a guy who is not secure with himself & he likely has a need to control & dominate situations so that he feels better. If he has not shown a controlling tendency yet, I can tell you from my own experience, that it is only a matter of time. You might want to consider whether or not this relationship is the best one for you. Good luck!
2007-02-17 16:55:41 · answer #2 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You might want to consider how serious the relationship is and whether or not its worth it to continue. It sounds like maybe he is frustrated with SOMETHING (maybe not you) but either way, you are definitely getting the short end of the stick here. Maybe he's just afraid of people thinking his gf controls his life, ya know? you should def sit down and talk to him about his feelings.
2007-02-17 16:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by D.C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him thats he's listenning to some one else. If its been short time you can break up but then he might need to be put into the hosptial for consuling?
2007-02-17 16:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him to do one more thing...get lost!
2007-02-17 16:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by twest_dgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt like you and is too coward to dump you..... dump him.
2007-02-17 17:07:34 · answer #6 · answered by mattdpickett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋