so me and this one guy has started becoming very close.
i talk to him on the phone every day, and we really have a lot in common.
but the thing is, he and i know about everything about eachother..
and it makes things awkward enough to never want to talk to him in person.
i see him everyday, but we never have talked face to face.
im trying very hard to change that, so i invited him over to hang out with me at my house..
but i just need some help on good topics to talk about with him..
hes the kind of guy that skates, doesn't play sports, and doesn't do much but get into trouble..
what should i say to him then?
advise would be very helpfull! :]
2007-02-17 08:30:53 · 5 answers · asked by emmie n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try talking about the things he loves talking about. Might be skating or some funny experiences that got him into trouble in the past. Other stuff might be in the line of "What about this or that makes you like it or not like it so much", etc. For the conversation to be flowing he should ask you and want to know about you as well. Don't worry so much about holding the conversation. It's as much his responsibility as it is yours. For the two of you to be together you should break the next barrier of intimacy and it sounds like you're very close. You'll be fine.
2007-02-17 08:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by Dennis K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe invite other people over.. that way it could be more comfortable. dont zone him out, keep him in every conversation. be yourself. if you talk to him every night on the phone shouldnt you come up with some thing to say..? if not, go skateboarding with him at a park or go to a mall and just window shop or something.
2007-02-17 08:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by HELLO123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend skates and i thoguht i was gunna have troule talking to him too but its alot easier. i know you may be nervous but you have to tell yourself to calm down. because if he lykes you he wont get mad at anything you say. that was my fear. i didnt wanna say something that might pis* him off. but you can basically say anything you want. even cream of spinach, they dont care. if he lykes you for you, then it shouldnt matter what you talk about. just say whatever comes to you. good luck girlie <3
2007-02-17 08:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by truesayokay9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hun just talk 2 him bout nething.....trust me i know how u feel im kinda in the same position with my current boyfriend .......weve only talked on the phone and on myspace......well im here if u ever need 2 talk....
2007-02-17 08:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by *Marine Wife* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
skater boys are gennerally punks.
They don't want to talk. They want to make out with you
Just kidding
Ask him questions that you would ask anybody.
What have you been up to lately?
Do you want to go get icecream?
Who are your teachers?
Questions that he would like to answer and you would like to hear about..........
2007-02-17 08:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋