i asked this guy out. he said he wants to go out with me, but hes not ready to go out with anyone yet. i dont know when he's going to be ready, so should I move on or should i keep on waiting for him in the hope that one day he will be ready?
serious answers only please. :)
2007-02-17 08:19:06 · 9 answers · asked by julia 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its really hard i can tell... i wouldnt wait around to long... you should talk to him again soon in a couple of days to see if he feels the same way... and if he says he does then tell him that your not gonna wait around forever... say that i know that your not ready but its not really fair on me... and tell him that your willing to take it slow :] good luck darling
2007-02-17 08:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not just go out and try to find another guy, but if you meet someone while you are waiting, and you feel that this new guy could be something, you should move on. There is nothing wrong with waiting, but you could wait a LONG time and he may never be ready. It kind of depends on why he needs to wait, you know?
I would wait, but not wait inside a box...if you know what I mean.
2007-02-17 16:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i had a problem like this one time...
I waited and i missed out on some grea guys. anyone who asked i said no that i was kinda dating. Then when my guy was ready.. he wanted someone else. a year later this guy said he had liked me since last year and when i asked him why he never asked he said it was because he was knew the answer. He is the greatest guy i have ever met. So i think u should move on. Dont spend ur life waitin for something big or great to happen.. move on and make it happen best of luck
2007-02-17 16:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if there's a person to move on with, then simply go on and date them casually, make sure he knows about it and say "Oh well I thought you said you weren't ready yet" He deserves it, so it's fair game, go on and have fun with it. Don't like go out and get married to another guy, but don't be a spinster woman and sit and knit at home.
2007-02-17 16:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you are waiting, why don't you go out on some dates to take your mind off of him. Who knows, you may find someone better on these dates.
2007-02-17 16:23:43 · answer #5 · answered by insidehomerun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, if he's really interested in you, he'll come after you when hes ready to be with someone, as your moving on you might meet someone who you really want to be with, this guy might be just a "crush"
2007-02-17 16:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica Lynn! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, if he ever makes up his mind he might get lucky that you're still available and will consider going out with him.
2007-02-17 16:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him, tell him you are ready now! and if he doesn't jump on board NOW it will be never. Do not call him talk with him face to face so that nothing will be lost in translation
2007-02-17 16:30:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him
then you will wait a certain amount of time
but if he keeps evading
confront him
saying it feels like you are making excuses to not go out with me
make up your mind
then you have your answer
ps:
go with your gut
2007-02-17 16:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋