Is it bad to have sex for dollars?

Question

I have had sex with two boys in my grade for money. my friends says is bad, is it wrong?

Answer 1

Sounds like prostitution to me, is that what you want in life?

Answer 2

No, not at all. You can use those dollars to pay the doctor to help clear up the Sexually Transmitted Diseases you'll contract if you keep up that kind of irresponsible behavior.

Or, maybe those dollars will come in handy to help pay the bills when you're pregnant.

Or, with the reputation for being a prostitute, you'll probably have no friends, so spend the money on booze and liquor. It'll help dull the pain of leading such a non-productive life.

Or, invest in a grave marker and burial plot, so that when you die of A.I.D.S., they'll have some place to put the remains.

WAKE UP!!! You're still in school. Do something productive with your life, instead of squandering it on cheap thrills. 5 minutes of good sex, (even for free), can't make up for the lifetime of misery it could cause.

Answer 3

Having sex for money is a bad thing, in my own opinion. It is like selling your self for something you wont and don't have. Like a trad off, he gets you and you get money. I don't see why your doing it but I am not going to sit here a yell at you. For one thing this type of thing can get around and sometimes fast. The guys might tell others what you did and others may become interested and come knocking and wont it too. You get what I am saying? Here is a good time to stop.

You can really get hurt this way too. If you continue into the ******, I'm not saying you are going to or thinking about doing it in the ******, you can get you self in to a lot of trouble if you do. Just think if you do continue to you most likely will get in to a hobbit of having sex for money. Sure how your doing it right now may seam safe you know, I hope you do, who the guys are. But in the ****** who knows if you will or not.

But just think about it and in my opinion It is not a safe thing to do at all. oat a wise one ether.

Christy

Answer 4

Yes. If this is serious, you need to talk to a parent or teacher or some other adult you trust immediately. Sex for money is illegal, but on top of that, you don't sound like you understand the seriousness of sex. You need to be safe, without contraception you could get pregnant or an STD. Talk to someone you trust soon.

Answer 5

It's called prostitution no matter how you look at it. Is it bad? I guess that depends on the situation you're in - like if you can't eat or live unless you do, but it's never good -you're selling your body.

My dad once asked a friend of mine if she would sleep with a man for $1 milliion, and she said sure. His reply: Well, we've established you're a whore, now we can negotiate the price.

Enough said.

Answer 6

good and bad are both subjective things - that is to say, they only exist in people's opinions. so yes, it is bad/wrong according to your friends. what you need to decide is: do YOU think it's wrong? and you also need to decide why you think that.

personally, i wouldn't do it because i wouldn't want the reputation that goes with it. however, i don't necessarily think it's wrong because it was an agreement between you and the guys and the action itself didn't harm anyone. you might want to consider the consequences next time, though (i.e. if you don't want to risk being seen as 'easy' etc. - but then is 'easy' really 'bad'? i guess that's subjective too!)

so think about what YOU are ok with doing and what you are ok with being seen as by other people when you do those things.

Answer 7

yes that is bad. are you like, desperate for money or something? you are ruining your life doing that. Don't make that kind of commitment until you are married. now, people are going to think you are a slut or something like that because you did it for money. if you really want some money GET A JOB!! what is it these days kids wanting to have sex?!! my goodness the world is falling apart.

Answer 8

It all depends on your moral stand point. Of course they're going to tell you its wrong, but it's really up to you to decide that. Legally its wrong depending on where you live, most places that's the case. If you really need money hun, get a job. A respectable woman in my opinion shouldn't do such things, makes us other women look bad.

Answer 9

Yes it is bad. But not horrible. I hope you know that they are using you and that is horrible. You dont need to give up your body for sex. And i think that you are just giving up your body because you are desperate for someone. But then i dont know. I hope you understand that what you are doing is wrong. But i hope i helped you understand.

Answer 10

While what you did is illegal and considered a vice (prostitution) crime, morally, it is little different from individuals who have sex in order to receive presents and other commercial but non-monetary benefits from their partners.

Answer 11

Wait, you just asked if you were bi cause you have sex with girls and boys...now for money too...you are a slut...thanks for clearing up the mystery...