my now ex boyfriend told me to tell my parents he was takkin me skating, and instead we went to a friends house and had sex. a little less then a month later i found out from my ex(they are good friends)he was cheatin on me. ive grown tired of him too. was it right to do? or should i have waited?
2007-02-17 07:36:41 · 18 answers · asked by momslilangel089 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you wanted a reputation for being easy then nope you shouldn't have waited. If you wanted to have self respect as well as the respect of him and other's yes you should have waited.
2007-02-17 07:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know the answer to this. My best answer is that alot of girls are so ready to be women that they never think things through at all and end up regretting alot. So it was probably a mistake (since you have regrets), but at your age, guess what, every guy will stick it in any hole given a chance. It is the way of the world. The best way to heal is to accept this guy as a douchebag and move on with life.
2007-02-17 15:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It was better to wait because he kinda used U,but now leave him and next time don't do what boys telling U to do like having sex because they want to take advantage of U. Be smartter
2007-02-17 15:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by diana s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always wait to have sex Have you ever heard of true love waits? Well it's a commitment to God that you are going to stay pure as a gift to your future mate that's what I believe and where I stand on this matter.
2007-02-17 15:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by Peace, Love, Gun<3☎ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should have waited. Its to late now so the worst thing you can do is dwell in the past. Hold your head up high and move on.
2007-02-17 16:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its sad to see people giving away their bodies to men and /or women that do not respect them nor appreciate them.
You can't undo the past. So stop worrying about it. However, do try to learn from it. Men ane women will tell a person whatever you want to hear to get you in bed. Be careful.
2007-02-17 15:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by Chi Guy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't dwell in the past you can't change it. Move on and learn from your mistakes. Next time, maybe you should take some more time before you jump into bed with someone.
2007-02-17 15:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you felt ready and mature at the time to have sex then dont get worked up on regrets that you have no control over now. learn from your mistakes and move on.
2007-02-17 15:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by CarlosDeLargos 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont drive urself insane over sumthing u cant change. Maybe u should of waited but with the next guy u'll kno that its better to wait.
2007-02-17 15:41:45 · answer #9 · answered by I'm. Not. Okay. 121. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you know, whatever you have done is done. if you regret, just don't do it again until you're more sure. it's wasting time to sit and regret. but don't let this opportunity stop teaching you a lesson! learn from it and move on. we make mistakes...sometimes bigger ones sometimes smaller ones...but we learn from it. don't beat yourself up too much....just be careful next time then!
2007-02-17 15:41:15 · answer #10 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋