What's your opinion on going out with someone who you dont find in the slightest way attractive, basically totally opposite from what you would go for, but he has a good personality. Do you think a relationship like that can work or do you think there has to be a little attraction?
2007-02-17 07:27:08 · 19 answers · asked by Claire g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has a good personality, you're attracted to it, so therefore there's some attraction... but if you mean physical attraction, I think there has to be something there. A person's personality will change how you see the person physically, so if he's really nice and stuff, you will start to like how he looks. If you have no physical attraction whatsoever, I don't think the r-ship could last very long.
2007-02-17 07:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard question. We are taught to look at a person's inner beauty and not so much what is on the inside. I think that you have to be attraction to a person in some sort of way. But I know for me, the more I get to know a person the more attracted to them I become. Sometimes when we only go for what our "type" is we miss out on some really great people. Some of my most memorable (in a good way) relationships were with people that I originally wasn't attracted to. I think that you should give it a try. The attraction may come. You never know if you never try.
2007-02-17 15:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by Who is that red head??? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Morally, personality is all that matters. Personality is definatly what matters most, and that is what you should judge about a person. However, if you can't stand to look at the person whenever you are together, then I dont think that the relationship will work. You have to be able to look at the person without cringing to be able to have a good relationship. If they just aren't you type (attraction wise) but they arent too hideous to look at, then absolutly judge them on only personality.
2007-02-17 15:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the attraction starts to grow as the person continues dating or seeing the datee then there is potential for a successful relationship. however attraction is key to make it work and if the attraction remains at a flatline and your just repulsed or turned off by features that you dont find appealing then it's more then likely not going to work
2007-02-17 15:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by CarlosDeLargos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though we'd like to say attraction isn't a big factor in a relationship, it actually is.
However, Personality will hold the relationship together.
2007-02-17 15:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all part of the whole package. there has to be some form of attraction in looks, personality and what you both have in common. a little of all things helps in making a good and stronger relationship. read tips on love and relationships to help you more on this site
2007-02-17 15:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks fade with age and Yes oppisites can attract eachother.Its isnt unheard off. Im more into personality anyways. A persons personality shines through more. My daughters daddy and I are total oppisites...
My grandparents were oppisites with their beliefs and were married for 53 wonderful and happy years.
Good Luck
2007-02-17 15:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by Tbrat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the type of girl that sees a great personality and a man that knows what I'm worth and I fall head over heals. Appearance isn't everything, however, you must have some kind of chemistry. Mind and heart must work together to find mr. right ;)
2007-02-17 15:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by Amy ;) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's got lesss than a 50/50 chance. Attraction is very powerful.
2007-02-17 15:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Do you think a relationship like that can work " Yes I do, it's called friendship. I don't jump right into a "romantic" relationship with someone I'm not "romantically" attracted to.
2007-02-17 15:30:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋