I dated this guy for 2yrs and he was my frist every thing we fell in luv and we went through alot 2gether but I had 2 let him go b/c he was bringing me down with his bad habbits.
2 months later I started talking 2 this other guy and he makes me happy but hes older than me and he keeps things from me i dont know if i should stay or move on with the new guy and try 2 make it work?
2007-02-17 07:25:44 · 18 answers · asked by ~**Hooters**~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well Which guy you should choose? It is a hard to answer but let see, you were strong enough to let one guy go because of his bad habits. Loosely translated is that you could not stand to be around some one that could not control his own life and need chemicals to meet reality. Now you have an old man that you feel he is not honest with you and keeps things from you? Loosely translated, he doesn't tell you the truth. He is not honest with you. My dear keep looking for a man that meets your needs to the maximum possible. He should be honest and not on mind alteration drugs. You have made a good choice so far keep looking. Good Luck
2007-02-17 07:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot more guys out there than 2. You don;t need someone that brings you down and you definately don't need someone that lies to you. Both sound like they have issues, I wouldn't think too hard about it, keep looking if neither one feels right.
2007-02-17 07:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy the single life for a while. dont use him as a rebound. and if hes keeping things from you, then he's not being honest. stick with the old guy, maybe he'll quit his bad habits.
2007-02-17 07:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by John Redcorn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart and you mite find out who you think is better for you and if you dont like the guys bad habits then dont go crwling back to him because he might not have learned his lesson so make him learn his lesson if you chose the other guy or him still u gotta set then both straight but dont change the things u like about them!
2007-02-17 07:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by munira 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which ever makes you the happiest and you feel is right for you. has nothing to do with how long you have known someone its all about being happy in yr life. read tips on love and relationships to help you more on this site
2007-02-17 07:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you`re totally over the other guy, then you should try and make it work witht he new guy, at least for a little while. it seems like maybe you could try it with him, and if things get bad, you back out of it.
that`s just my thoughts :)
hope i helped! becky
2007-02-17 07:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by becky j. <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should move on if a guy keeps things from u then he isn't being true to u so let him go cause my exb/f did tht to me to find out tht he didn't like me like he sad and ended up dumping me 4 my friend so let him go before he lets u go
2007-02-17 07:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by ashley19948 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u chasin the guys or r they comin to u?i think u should let the right one come along.i like ur nickname.my real name is ayana.but anyway.don't let secrets or bad habits hold u to them or let u go down with them or not move on.let life flow and let love flow with it b/c with love is fate.
2007-02-17 07:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by ღ♥MadamA.A.♥ღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No hurry. For the time being, be single and look around. You will find your Mr. Right.
2007-02-17 07:32:01 · answer #9 · answered by ann c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like all things, if you have a many options, you can decide which is the best.
try to do it in a way that it doesn't hurt any of the options or offend anyone.
2007-02-17 07:30:18 · answer #10 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋