well i have been with him for over 5 months....and i really love him...but sometimes i feel like i cant even look at a guy cause he might get jealous...i been trying to tell him but it looks like i dont know how to tell him...HELP ME PLEASE..!!
2007-02-17 07:01:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Does he go to the extremes?? (by this I mean does he get into problems that he's not suppose to). Well you should understand him in someway because he only wants you to be for him and he is afraid that you might leave him. He probably likes you for him and no one else. I mean wouldn't you be jealous if starred at other girls and not paying attention to you. Also if he is too jealous tell him the truth that it annoys you and sure he can be jealous but not too jealous because that's not right.
2007-02-17 07:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get together and have a close moment - just you 2. Talk about whatever comes up and then ask him if he loves you - if he says yes - and you feel the same - tell him so. Then add - you know I would never do anything to hurt you and i want to be with you - but - you need to believe this. If your behaviour keeps up -jealousy - I will not tolerate it and I will leave you.
Put responsibility in his court at all times. Reassuring him will work - if he really believes you - but if he keeps this up - you will lose friends and potential male friends till you are left with just the two of you all the time and this make you resent him VERY VERY MUCH.... Explain this to him - His Jealousty needs to stop or you will leave - it's emotional blackmail - his problem - make his deal with it.
Good Luck
:-)
2007-02-17 07:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by Roxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are overly jealous all the time. With some, there's nothing you can say to make them understand. You'll explain it until you are blue in the face and then before you know it, he's jealous again. That's no way to live. You haven't done anything wrong. Life can be miserable with a guy like that.
2007-02-17 07:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by Barbra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight out NOW. You should have made this clear from the beginning: you are a trustworthy person and insist on being treated as such. Stop tolerating it! Tell him you can and will speak to whomever you wish whenever you wish-you do not now or will you ever need his approval! If he cannot accept this, then WALK. Also throw in that those who really are messing around usually are the most jealous-because you will find that is very true!!
2007-02-17 07:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by life coach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dumped a boyfriend because he was so jealous. I got sick and tired of it. I could not even talk with boys I had know before him. Tell him if he can't trust you the relationship will not work out. So, he better wise up or you are gone. To me that is abuse and if you marry him it will only get worse.
2007-02-17 07:11:08 · answer #5 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him nicely that you love him dearly and you would never think about leaving him, and that he shouldnt get jealous if you simply look/talk to a guy. It doesn't mean anything, you love him and ONLY him.
2007-02-17 07:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by MOVED! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look straight into his eyes. Tell him you love him no matter if you take a glance at another guy. Also tell him that you'll break up with him if he doesn't start to try to control his jealousy
2007-02-17 07:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by Stela P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM TO GET SOME COUNCELING
2007-02-17 07:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you hot?
2007-02-17 07:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by G.D. 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋