well i have been with him for over 5 months....and i really love him...but sometimes i feel like i cant even look at a guy cause he might get jealous...i been trying to tell him but it looks like i dont know how to tell him...HELP ME PLEASE..!!
2007-02-17 07:01:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
TRUST , COMMUNICATION and HONESTY are the key to a long healthy relationship*
He may have past issues that are clouding his thoughts..and fears losing you if you talk to another fellow or look at him.
I would sit him down and tell him you're not goin anywhere...and to stop being so jealous or he will eventually lose you. It's not healthy to be jealous just from looking at another guy. If you can't speak to him openly and honestly, then you don't have much of a relationship* GOODLUCK*
NEVER be afraid to tell your partner how you're feeling...if you are..then you shouldn't be with that person*
2007-02-17 07:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get together and have a close moment - just you 2. Talk about whatever comes up and then ask him if he loves you - if he says yes - and you feel the same - tell him so. Then add - you know I would never do anything to hurt you and i want to be with you - but - you need to believe this. If your behaviour keeps up -jealousy - I will not tolerate it and I will leave you. Put responsibility in his court at all times. Reassuring him will work - if he really believes you - but if he keeps this up - you will lose friends and potential male friends till you are left with just the two of you all the time and this make you resent him VERY VERY MUCH.... Explain this to him - His Jealousty needs to stop or you will leave - it's emotional blackmail - his problem - make his deal with it. Good Luck :-)
2016-05-23 23:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
looking and checking out other guys is WRONG while with someone.
I really don't blame him for being sad/jealous
If you think it is right or ok to check out guys then hope to be a guy in your next life and you'll understand.
You also need to understand that he cares.
If he didn't care, he wouldn't mind if you did or didn't so you are lucky he does.
2007-02-17 07:05:34 · answer #3 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him he has nothing to worry about. It's okay to look, but just don't touch. You can't say that to him. If he can look at other women, and doesn't touch then what is the problem? Is he insecure with himself?
2007-02-17 07:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by FREDDIE H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see other answer page and what i wrote
2007-02-17 07:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by Stela P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋