It seems as if I always fall for the same type of guy. I am so dedicated to all of my relationships and I end up getting used. I consider myself to be a successful hard working smart kind-hearted person and all people ever do is walk all over me, and I allow it. I just don't get it. I am such a great girlfriend... Maybe I'll just go be a nun so I don't have to worry about guys anymore...
2007-02-17 06:57:00 · 14 answers · asked by hurleygirl5211 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are "too good" of a girlfriend but the right guy will appreciate it. Sounds like you have had bad luck. There are enough guys out there that will appreciate it, but maybe you should stop going for the overconfident guys and try to find someone humble that wants to do things for you, and not take advantage of you. It sounds like you are a "giver" and everyone you date is a "taker."
Keep looking, if a guy is always asking you to do things for him and never does things for you than move on. It may not be your thing, but try going to a church singles group. Hopefully you will find a different "breed" than what your used to.
Also, listen to your close friends advise, they are always looking out for you, even when you may be blinded by what you think is "love." They can always spot a jerk in the making....
2007-02-17 07:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said you keep falling for the same type of guy and they all seem to use you. You have to change your "taste" in men a lil bit to attract decent ones. The universe is all about receiving and giving energy. Change the energy and people around you. You may be giving off the vibe (maybe even unknowingly) that u will do anything to be in a relationship and are willing to take all types of sh*t and these guys are able to sense this and use you. Stop givng away your love so easily, save it for someone who deserves it and deserves you. If not you are going to keep fallin in this vicious cycle.
2007-02-17 15:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by sexyrednewyork 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand what u are saying but u cant give up u will found that right guy just take ur time and getting to know him like 2 to 3 months like go out on the date and things like that and thats how u get to know a guy dont rush into or nothing i wish u the best
2007-02-17 15:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by LifesJourney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easy. You are expecting something from a man and those that you expect things from are usually jerks. They can tell they have you and will walk all over you. The nice dudes you meet are too easy to catch, therefore you walk on them. Something has to give in which you stop wanting something certain and give in to the men that treat you well
2007-02-17 15:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by hvacrjohn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this is b/c we women always go for the bad boy type whereas we are too lazy to actually look around us and notice that real love is lying next to us. we all have the same problem and we all promise ourselves after each bad relationship that we will never fall for the trap again, but we do fall for it - the cycle carries on...
2007-02-17 15:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by ~Mevsim~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl there is nothing wrong with you ...cuz young guys are full of crap..so don't go after them let them come too you ..if your smart and funny and good girl as you said ...beleive me they will come to you ..cuz when love comes to you it's gonna be much easier and it will work out with you..cuz guys can be stupid with girls so when they feel like the got what they want they leave it..and go look for something harder ..i'm a guy and turst me i know how these stupid guys use girls..
best wishes
2007-02-17 15:06:22 · answer #6 · answered by guitar freak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to read this book called "the rules" i dont remember who the author is but if you go to your local library and ask it will be a small book with all the information you will need to carry you through your whole life when it comes to guys and toxic friends. read and learn girl, read and learn. every girl dating age should never date until they read it. remember that women have all the power. read the book andyou willsee.
2007-02-17 15:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by hammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is nothing wrong with you, and the right guy is out there believe me. He will love you for who you are. Try to stay away from all those louses.
2007-02-17 15:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, don't focus too much on guys. i find that if you just focus on your studies, live your life, laugh wiht your buds, the right guys end up staring at you in class without you noticing and then they ask you out.
2007-02-17 15:00:39 · answer #9 · answered by Stela P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are like every typical young lady who is used to the jerks who do not treat you well. date the ones that you would normally not look at. they are the ones that will take care of you.
2007-02-17 15:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by Hello Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋