ok i think i have sometihng lyk adhd or something lyk that but its when ur angry u cant control your anger u just do what u want with out think because this year in my math class i got written up 10-15 times because of me anger and i just cant control it does any one have any ideas of what i could have well thanx a lot cause i cant stand it any more i really dont wanna get written up any more and im afraid one day im going to hurt some one because of my anger before i once throw my phone at my sisters head and i chucked a pen at her and it almost stabbed her in her eye and i feelt really bad as soon as i let go of the phone and pen
2007-02-17 06:56:20 · 8 answers · asked by joyce b 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
could i be lyk this because of my family because let me just tell u a little bit about them my dad is on drugs and my dad lives with his brother and his friend who are very big drug attics and they smoke pot while im there but they dont realise i no and my mom well she is never home and she works 7 days a week 8 hours and when she has time off she goes drinking be 4 my mom almost died 2 times because of it once she got drugged but she went to the er rite away even though she couldnt even stand up and they said she could of did and my mom had her kidney removed because it got infected from her drinking ot much
2007-02-17 13:43:13 · update #1
It sounds like you have poor stress tolerance. You need to at least find ways to recognize when you are building up and take active steps to decelerate the anger process. It would be good to find a counselor to help guide you through the process. You don't have to live this way. You may react in anger due to feeling powerless or unable to communicate properly. This is common is people in the autism/apergers spectrum, by the way although it doesn't necessarily mean this is what you have, of course.
You have to learn to not react to the world around you, or you will be controlled by everyone and every situation. That's no fun.
2007-02-17 07:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by here_nor_there 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad that you realize you have a problem and are asking for help. To me that shows you are a good and kind person deep down, and that you CAN change your ways if you work at it.
But the main thing is that you need to speak to a medical professional ASAP. If you feel like you can't speak to your parents, maybe a counselor or teacher at school, or another adult that you trust. I know laws vary, but it can be a bit more difficult to get medical treatment if you're underage without your parents' consent. I would suggest talking with your folks. They must realise that there's a problem, and more than likely will be relieved that you have come to them for help.
Whatever you do, do not just sit and suffer in silence! You CAN get this taken care of, and you will feel the weight of the world lifted from your shoulders when you do! So don't waste another day of your life! Get it taken care of, and you'll be glad you did.
Good luck to you!
2007-02-17 15:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by zeffsundiez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe the first step is finding the cause of the anger. Once that is pinpointed you will be able to control your outbursts. I find myself feeling angry alot too. However, I look at the positives in my life. Hope this helps. It might also help by talking to a counselor. I would look for a counselor that is open minded and responds to you not one that just sits there listening.
2007-02-17 15:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to do is go see your family doctor. They are going to be the best person to answer this question and direct you to getting help be it a chemical imbalance or something that you would need to see a therapist for. Then again there may not be anything wrong with you, you may just be surrounded by jerks
2007-02-17 15:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by Wraith53089 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Siblings should be able to fight without being stabbed in the eye. If you want to be responsible for the death of a young girl, then don't do anything. But you need to see a doctor before something bad happens.
2007-02-17 15:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a friend of mine,it's not your fault. If you haven't seen a doctor, ask the doctor about trans cranial magnetic therapy You might be med resistant and this procedure is supposed to be excellent for med resistant people.
Remember what your doing is not your fault so try not to worry about your behavior
2007-02-17 15:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
GO see a doctor and maybe some anger managment classes ( they are fun uget foam bats a get to beat eachother with them lol) it helped me
2007-02-17 15:00:05 · answer #7 · answered by angelina m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U NEED TO CALM DOWN IN TRY NOT TO TAKE YOUR ANGERY OUT ON PEOPLE CUZ ONEDAY THEY GOIN TO BEAT U UP SOME JUST PLEASE STAY CALM IN TRY TO TAKE IT SLOW.
2007-02-17 15:01:11 · answer #8 · answered by Rayray 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋