Everytime i meet someone they want the same things i do.But the more time you spend with them you find out that they are with you because it benefits them at the time.You are there because they need your help basically until they find something more interesting.I've been secluded for a year now.I don't go anywhere anymore because to me it seems like a waste of time and a useless game to keep playing,not to mention what it has made me become.
2007-02-17 06:55:46 · 8 answers · asked by mikey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel your pain Mikey. I've given up finding someone that is honest and who is just themselves. Why do people pretend to be someone they are not. When, in the long run, the truth will come out anyway.
We shouldnt' give up hope. But it is hard not to be jaded. My suggestion is to find good people to talk to. Even if it is online. At least then you won't feel so alone.
2007-02-17 07:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by Rhoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey mikey I am sorry you feel that way! I meet alot of people everyday online. And let me tell you I found somebody online and we have been together for 5 yrs now. It's been great. I did what you are doing. I am nice looking for my age. I am average looking. I like to meet people on line then ask if they live in the same area and then from there meet in person. It's the dating game for adults. Date more than just one see which one you like. That's what I would do.
2007-02-17 15:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by FREDDIE H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated my HS sweetheart for 10 years. He told me, after moving from MA to CA with him, that he didn't want to be with me anymore. At that point, I threw in the towel. I was so in love with him and didn't think i'd ever find someone. So I gave up. I moved to Maui and met a fling that lasted a year. He dumped me over something...I don't even know what. And that was really it. After that, I refused all offers for years. Then a co-worker begged me for a long time to go out with his brother. Over and over and over. I finally told him I'd go (so I could prove it wasn't going to work). We ended up being awesome friends for years, like 4 years and then he asked me to marry him. He's still my best friend.
So, yes, I gave up. But fate stepped in, took away the guys that I thought were great, and made room for my real man! Giving up didn't leave me alone, in fact, it was wanting to stay alone that forced me to raise my standards and not settle for less than my ideal!
2007-02-17 15:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by Wendy B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to look so hard.
Love comes when you LEAST EXPECT IT. Trust me. It happened to me. He was right under my nose the entire time.
God has a plan for you. He will bring you the right one in His time. Just have faith in Him.
You should also be happy with yourself first before you're happy with someone else.
2007-02-17 14:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have given up...now 51. I wish I had the solution but I don't.
2007-02-17 15:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by beachloveric 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
giving up when is when you tend to meet "real" women. when you try you will always find the scummy users... things will turn around for ya...
2007-02-17 14:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by Tacyella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me ME ME Me!
but that's probably because i've never been anything more than a friend to all guys
2007-02-17 14:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by Stela P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've already found that special someone: Myself. You can't break up with yourself, can you?
2007-02-17 20:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋