Rescused cat, losing boyfriends right and left as either the cat is jealous or the boyfriend gets jealous, what to do?
2007-02-17 06:54:40 · 16 answers · asked by beachloveric 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL boy did i have the same problem...The cat sees you as his one and only....after all you live with the cat...the boyfriends will have to get over it...they will eventually...I had major problems with guys being jealous of my cat getting more attention then them...that is crazy to hear someone even say....But who cares your cat will love you forever and if the guy don't understand that then you don't want them around....but your cat will still be there to cheer you up....good luck to you...
2007-02-17 07:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Will may be the cat is trying to tell you some thing??
A cat & dogs can tell if some one might be a problem.
All so It might be that there is some thing on the body
or the close he is wearing.
Ofcorse it might be the cat is jealous.
2007-02-17 15:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by Yleekote 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, excuse me for laughing. But if your cat is "jealous" anytime you have a date put the cat in his cage. You cat can't stop you from dating. (and i love cats alot!) And if your boyfriend doesn't like cats, then find a guy who is okay with you having a cat you love. If he's not move on, there's guys out there that like cats.
2007-02-17 15:19:59 · answer #3 · answered by laangel464 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, it sounds like you have a serious problem right there!! In this stage of the relationship, I would try to communicate with both your boyfriend and the cat. Communication is essential in your everyday relationships, especially your lover. You need to let your cat know that he is just a cat and that humans are more important than animals. Right now you need your relationship to blossom with your boyfriend...so I would tell your boyfriend that you will focus on him more than the cat....and then when your boyfriend leaves, spend time with your cat. Also get a crate for your cat so he won't be around your boyfriend. Hope that helps and good luck!!!
2007-02-17 15:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by aimeeish 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should of said the cats is in the way and its a cat,cat who's doing the scarying away . Question is how do you get the guy more considerate or the putty car to be nicer?
2007-02-17 15:02:11 · answer #5 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's funny cuz I just started dating again n was dating this guy who was coming over pretty often to watch movies and every time he would sit down my rabbit would come on the couch and go back n forth across us from 1 end of the couch to the other.Then he would proceed to poop on the couch beside him.Another time we where cuddling and he jumped right up n landed on our heads n made us jump lol...it was funny.Anyway have a wonderful wkend.
2007-02-17 15:01:10 · answer #6 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a man that likes cats.
2007-02-17 15:48:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The cats got your best interests at heart.
2007-02-17 14:59:29 · answer #8 · answered by peaco1000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip. Your cat does not control your life...it's the other way around. Cats are possesive animals but jeez, you are a bit higher on the food chain, take contol.
2007-02-17 15:00:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find a man that's good with your cat. I love all animals; if a chick has a pet, the first thing I do is get in good with her pu $$ y. Wait...did I just say that? Once her pet loves you, it's smooth sailing.
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2007-02-17 15:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋