Im working for a corporate for 3 yrs. i was an A player.. then i got promoted and things took a turn. Im not able to interact properly with my team mates. They redicule and make fun of me. I want to get back on top of things again. I dont flatter my boss but they do.. so i am usually projected like a bad apple.. when i am not. I dont react to whatever they do. at least externally.. bt its bery demotivating.. n i dont knw how to turn things in my favor... can anyone help me please???
2007-02-17 06:51:10 · 5 answers · asked by Chris J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They put you down because they're jealous and/or just teasing you. If you let them get to you you're gonna lose it. Man up and keep whats yours.
2007-02-17 06:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult to take on such bad behaviour by coleagues,
People should respect each other, whether in working environment or social life or personal relations. Dear friend don't you worry Gold shines only when it is burned hot, Just ignore their acts, you be yourself, stick to "Truth, Justice & Love". Be polite to everyone even to those who ridicule you. (Mostly such people are not properly treated at their home, they receive bad treatment in their personal life, so they relieve their stress on others in this manner.) Eventually they realise their mistake and correct themselves. If they don't , then don't worry that it their problem not your's. In the mean time if they continue to do the same, then just reply to them with a smile, and go on with your work. Your, Boss will come to know your worth, if not sooner. Usually bosses do know what their staff are. If the boss dosen't know then, he is the looser. Any boss who sees what his subordinate show can't be a boss. He should have is own scanning eyes.
Be bold and Be confident.Bye.
2007-02-17 07:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by Chendhi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to work and do your job. Let them be immature if that's how they are. Don't let it bother you, I mean, you go to work to work not to socialize. If you just can't do that, then you will have to take it up with management and start having people written up for it. It won't get you any popularity awards, but they will finally understand that you won't tolerate that behavior.
2007-02-17 07:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you require is communication skill and proper motivation.
# Please procure books of Dale Carnegie.The same will give you new confidence and practical approach in life.
# Please join such yahoo groups who inspire and motivate in life. Frankly speaking I have been much benefitted by same. In case you want help, please email me at pklamba231@yahoo.com
# Please open the following site. The website gives you new attitude.
http://www.saviourbehaviour.com/overcomingfear/Quotes_Overcoming_Fear_Quotes_1.html
In case you are interested some motivating stories can also be arranged for you. In which town in India you are?
2007-02-18 21:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by PK LAMBA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
care ur self with dignity and remember u don't have to please every one , success makes others jealous of u but , and being a good guy now a days doesn't work , just don't listen to to others this will end soon just ignore them till they r done being childish
2007-02-17 14:48:36 · answer #5 · answered by amal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋