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Say it isn't so...
2007-02-17 06:50:51 · 14 answers · asked by Chi Guy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes nice guys do finish last, but that is not always bad. Sometimes the best is saved for last and you will get the best in the end. Better to be alone than in bad company. as they say. I finally got my dream man at age 39. A lot of girls are not mature enough to realize what is important till they have been hurt by the "not nice" guys. Hang in there!
2007-02-17 06:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by Yo C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it depends on the womans age. If she is young then yes. Nice guys loose big time. As they grow older and been around the block more then they will start appreciating the nice guy better. Most people including men confuse niceness to being weak. You can be nice but every now and then throw a curve ball. Kind of like saying I'm nice to everybody and I expect the same back. Cross me and you will pay.
Extra tip. The best woman to go after is what I called the reform slut. These are the ones that got tired of all bull but are still fun. At this stage they are ready for a serious relationship.
2007-02-17 14:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true to a sense. But many nice guys come across as somewhat "pathetic or mammas boys," which is why the phrase (nice guys finish last) came along. There is nothing wrong with being nice and treating a girl right, but don't give a girl too much of yourself too early on. Keep some mystery about yourself, that way they will want to know more about you.
Try not to talk too much about yourself in the first few dates. Obviously tell her about yourself, but don't get into your feelings, past relationships and deep personal things. Tell her little things to perk her interest but dont go into detail. Be nice and confident, girls will come back wanting to know more.
2007-02-17 14:59:18 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry but that is the way it seems to be well at lest for me that is.
For some strange reason it seems that women these days want men that will abuse them and then the women complain about and abusive boy friend, but Oh I love him they say.
Well sir your guess is as good as mine I have no clue way women do like good guys but that seem to be the way things are.
Now on occasion the good guy does find a women but then it turns out that is is the &*%$# and it is the man that wish he were some where else.
Who knows that why I am singal and not looking and yes it is lonely but I save lots of money that I would have to spend on get them this and that.
Really honestly your better off without them less headache.
2007-02-17 15:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by Tom Sawyer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is how it goes. It doesn't make much sense. A lot of women go for bad guys that don't care about them & respect them. The reason for that could possibly be that women are so used to being treated horrible by men that they don't know what it feels like to be treated right by a nice guy. We must realize, that we will be better off with a nice guy.
2007-02-17 14:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by prettyfreek15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is not the case, I met this nice guy and he really wanted to help me find Allah and that was all. He is a 40 year old man and had never been with a woman, his entire life is about Allah. I must admit we got to talking, well he did anyway and I feel in love with that nice guy. I must say that he was the man that I have been looking for all my life.
2007-02-17 15:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by TIE 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really don't know what that means because my boyfriend is a nice guy and he got the girl (me.)
2007-02-17 14:53:41 · answer #7 · answered by ** i Am hiS giRL ** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, all of the guys I date are nice guys. MOST girls like nice guys
2007-02-17 14:53:21 · answer #8 · answered by Stela P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby is the nicest guy I've ever met and we were together from the day we met. I never wanted a jerk.
2007-02-17 14:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by strawberry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well..it kinda is true for some girls but girls like me like the bad boy type....it really depends on the girl
2007-02-17 14:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by zoeyyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋