Theres this one guy in my class who always made fun of me. But then one day he said that he liked me but I thought that he was just kidding around cuz he always used to do that. But hes always acting like he was serious. He says he doesn't like me anymore but i really like him now. I want him to be serious and tlk to me about it but he won't. i don't know what to do cuz i really like him and hes acting lke he lkes this snot of a girl who used to go to my school. Help mee please!!!
2007-02-17 06:50:33 · 4 answers · asked by beachlover703 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol oh, I went through this back in the day. There was a guy that made fun of me a lot, then he decided that he liked me. Just from what I've experienced, I understand why you're suddenly having feelings for him. If he was making fun of you all that much, it might make him suddenly really appealing when he decides to respect you because it would mean that even someone like that thinks you're great. You are great but you don't need to take that from people.
Someone who disrespects you at one point will not change deep down. They will continue to disrespect you even when they act, or even feel, like they really like you all of a sudden. I would look to the people in your life that have always respected you.
Good luck!
2007-02-23 12:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by Chicken Little 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys flirt by joking around, teasing, and making fun of the girl they like. If he was acting like he was serious when he said he liked you, it's probably true. Some guys just can't talk about it... they're shy, or maybe they just haven't really grown up yet. If he said he didn't like you, it's possible he was only saying that because he thought you didn't feel the same way. And him flirting with another girl right in front of you only shows even more that anything he had for you really isn't gone yet. (Or maybe never was...)
So the best thing to do is talk to him. Do it over e-mail or im first, because you can usually get more out of some guys when you'r e not face to face. Explain to him that you were confused, and that you do like him if he's still insterested.
Mention that if he no longer likes you, that you hope you both can be friends.
If he doesn't respond, talk to him on the phone or face to face. It will be very difficult- just remember that everyone gets nervous and shy. He was probably feeling the same way you will feel when you tell him when he told you he liked you. So go for it. Remember that if you don't do this, you'll ever know what could have been.
Good Luck!
2007-02-25 05:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With a guy like this, who needs enemies? You need to scratch him off your list of possibilities because he is bad news. He made fun of you because he never respected you in the first place.
Why on earth would you want to be with anyone who does not respect you?
time to say, "Bye-bye."
2007-02-17 11:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by DrRJP 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he is just saying that cuz he got inbarrassed when he told you that he liked you shud tell him that you like him
2007-02-24 15:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by Varsity girl!!! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋