I fears. One have so many fears. Last night I got over my fear of rejection. It's going to take a long time for me to get rid of all of my of the bigger fears are people looking at me, which makes me stay in the house. Should I work on my little fears first and then the big fears?? Would it be easier?? Or should I would on the big fears first??
Ps. I'm 15 & also thanks for anwsering =]
2007-02-17 06:49:56 · 7 answers · asked by I luv me some chris breezy 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
sorry for the typo... i made some mistakes
2007-02-17 06:56:42 · update #1
Fears usually start out small and become much bigger in time and if left to fester. So, yes, conquering them while they're small is a very good idea.
2007-02-17 06:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by Reo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot of fears at 15 that will dissolve at a later age. Unfortunately life teaches wisdom to it's youth by experience. Just know that 10 years from now you won't remember any of your current fears. Life works out problems. It just does. Practice being confident, even if you have to fake it to make it. It becomes a habit. Tackle the small things first, then you will acquire confidence and it will build. First rule: the more you know about a fear, and the faster you face it, the less you will fear it. Never be afraid to march right into a fear. Knowledge is the light that fear is afraid of. Second rule: KNOW YOURSELF. Find out who you are, what you like. What do you believe in? Make yourself a mission statement. Our beliefs change over lifetimes, so don't be afraid it is written in stone. People DO look at you, people DO make fun of people, but they really don't mean anything by it. Don't absorb it. Laugh with them. In the end analysis, what people think is none of your business. The only person you can influence and change IS YOU. I was terribly shy and intorverted at your age. Unpopular, made fun of, and lonely. I learned over living how to deal with it. Once you make your mind up what you believe in, what you stand for, and who you are, you have a shield to defend yourself. Take baby steps. If it continues to be a problem, seek counseling. I did. It works. There is even free counself at most county levels. Good Luck!
2007-02-17 15:01:58 · answer #2 · answered by titanic3645 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, why don't you try to figure out what makes you so fearful?
It's hard being a teen, but you should be more eager to go out see what this great big world has to offer a special person like yourself. Of course people "look at you" - everyone looks at others. It doesn't mean that they are judging you - just that you are in their field of vision. Get over yourself! What do you do when you look at someone? Are you critical & judgmental? If not - neither are they . Besides, what do they have to do with you & how you live your life? Fear is crioppling - don't be a cripple! Go get 'em, Tiger!
2007-02-17 14:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by Da Bomb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get rid of both at the same time
2007-02-17 15:00:05 · answer #4 · answered by Ruby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my suggestion is to tackle them one at a time dont try to do too much at a time
2007-02-17 14:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by arniesmum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your little ones firt would be best
2007-02-17 14:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by Artsy-Fartsy-Momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should get him off your mind in forget about what he did to b/c one day he goin to need you.
2007-02-17 14:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by Rayray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋