I have a really close girl friend. We've been talking forever on IM since winter break. Last week, a friend tried to hook us two up for a dance, when she confronted me about it, I told her I would like to go with her, but not if she's only doing it for me, because she HATES dances, and she told me that. She gave me the impression that she liked me, because she asked SO many questions. A day later, I asked her about the subject online, she just said, I think it's better if we just stay friends. I've been trying to talk to her for a week. I called her, I left her message on facebook, I tried to IM her. She has not talked to me at all. She just said, you know my answer to everything. There's nothing to talk about. Why is she doing this? Is she annoyed because she thinks I'm trying to date her by trying to talk to her all the time? Or is she upset because I didn't make her to go that dance with me, or what? Please give detailed answers. I want my friend back. Yes, I do like her.
2007-02-17 06:47:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've also told her that I want things to go back to the way they were before, when we could talk about everything. I also stopped calling her. She's still avoiding me.
2007-02-17 06:55:38 · update #1
I've told her that I want things to go back to the way before already, and I've stopped calling her. And she's still avoding me? Seriously, why is she doing this?
2007-02-17 07:01:49 · update #2
Give her some space, for now. If she doesn't respond to you, then don't continue trying to talk to her. Eventually she'll come around, probably wondering why you stopped talking to her, and you can tell her you wanted to give her some space because you thought that's what she wanted. Then you could tell her that even though you like her, you don't want that to get in the way of a great friendship, and you're sorry if you made her uncomfortable... I hope this helps. By the way, if she isn't showing any interest in you, then she isn't worth dating, but at least you will have a great friendship out of this.
2007-02-17 06:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by Alice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she doesn't know what SHE wants and she's frustrated about it. If you give her some time and she still acts this way then she is not a true friend! A true friend wouldn't lead sumone on and then turn away all of a sudden. If she doesn't think that she led u on and she doesn't understand and forgive you for the missunderstanding then she is not worth it. So all in all if she doesn't get over it and forgive you then she shouldn't matter to you! Good luck!
2007-02-17 07:07:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi geo, I'll tell u something...maybe she likes you alot that she is afraid to love you because some times girls fear going into a love relationship with a guy who is a friend because if she lost you as a lover she will loose you as a friend too and maybe she just cant handle it.
you have to talk to her and convince her that you only want her as a friend as she wanted in the first place and that you were happy like that.
i hope this will work for you
2007-02-17 06:54:26 · answer #3 · answered by dimaabdin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a friend is just what it is, and when you cross the line and try to be more than just a friend it hurts, friendships lasts a lifetime, but how many relationships really do
2007-02-17 06:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by TIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM her that you just want to be friends too
trust me, it works
2007-02-17 06:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by ESSGEE96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk her. there's no more to it. ask her 'why you frontin?' Tell her you like her too. maybe she's scared to get too close to someone I'm not sure, I don't know her but just talk to her
2007-02-17 06:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by ** i Am hiS giRL ** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋