im in a relationship sine past 3 years. We were really very serious about each other. since last year?

Question

we had big fights. And for 6 months we did not even talk. But we are emotionally attached to each other even though we are not at all compatible. He is very short tempered. And has lots of attitude and show off. But i cannot leave him because im physically involved with him. My parents have lots of expectations from me. They want a very good match for me. And i do not think he will live upto them. He is over confident. He is good looking so many girls fall for him. It happens with me also. But i do not give him any kind of insecurities, he does. He does not always do it intentionally but it happens. He has changed a lot during the last 6 months. He has become the same person as he was before we met. And now i think that all my hard work has gone waste. He has made new friends and they are not decent girls. Im not able to accept all these changes. But still i think that i will have to accept him even though i have so many issues with him. But one thing is true our love is still the same

Answer 1

well if love is there then there are no issues u go get him girl be patient he will change but at the end of the day u have to accept him as he is cause he is not u puppy he is a human and thats were it gets worst we all have our thing and we do it our own ways and the girls u are talking about that he made friedns with tell him u do not like tand most if u love him and if u think he is good enough for u then chill and trust him


but 2 thing is that u know ur parents are not gonna like him so before doing any thing in front of parents be 100% sure that u want this guy other wise if u fight with ur parents and after 6 months u have a big fight and u break up or something u will have not where to go to so think about it 1000 time before doing it thats all

Answer 2

Dear anubha, yo uhave lost the trust over him. He seems to have lost interest in you. You just found out that he is not mentally compatible with you. Ironically, you feel the love between you guys is the same.

If I am not mistaken love improves a person. I think it's because you got invovled with him physically you don't wanna leave him and it's this thing that he has taken for granted. So already made a mistake by invovling with a person without verifying whether you two could get along well or not, and now you are commiting another mistake by compromising from your side.

Whatever to carry on the relationship with him or not is your wish. All that I can understand from the picture is that your future with him won't be as bright. But if you turn him down, who knows whther the other guy you find could be worse than this one, or probably better than this one.

Decisions of such relationships are like a gamble. you never know, you could lose your entire wealth, or win a fortune. But people do take their chances. Although later they complain a lot after they lose. But it was their decision. All I can say is be wise enough to make your choice. Try for the best, be prepared for the worst.

All da best...

:-)

Answer 3

I think u should think abt ur situation properly. I think u still love him even with his drawbacks but does he still love if he does not there is no relationship between u. u may have done a mistake of being intimate with him but forget abt it n go on with ur life ur first duty is to ur parents. dont let thm down if he is really nice n he cant live without u thn think ur future with him but if not its waste of time n u will b emotionally depressed whenever u find he befriends indecent girls. u will not have peace. u cant concentrate on anything so pls think n if u feel insecure with him better leave him because a lover should make u feel secure, good, n loved so b careful n dont make the mistake n spoil ur future

Answer 4

I'm sorry but I keep asking myself why people fall in love with someone you've just described. I don't thing it's really love but lust. It's a physical thing. He's hot and that's what you like about him. He's also a loser and so are you if you keep seeing him. Why are woman attracted to men like this? His love is still the same because he's getting what he wants. Wake up before it's too late. When I read things like this and the woman has to ask for advice she is getting exactly what she wants. She doesn't really want to hear anything.

Answer 5

i wager it easily relies upon on how solid the beginning of your relationship fairly is. If its solid and also you 2 believe one yet another, you need to be very well. i fairly trust that dissimilar lengthy distance relationships do no longer very last because of persons's insecurities and jealousy subject matters. My boyfriend and that i have been mutually for a very almost 2 years now. at the moment he's in uncomplicated practise for the Air stress, i'm getting to in trouble-free terms write and barely get to take heed to from him. when I do, its tremendous. so some distance that is been 2 months and we are nonetheless going solid. solid success including your relationship. i'm hoping you 2 the very maximum ideal.

Answer 6

Better decide now. I dont think that u should continue as the compatability is not there. No use wasting time be practical. U will remember me if u make this mistake now. Better be practical n be away /for both is good. God bless u.

Answer 7

it is natural what your feelings are for him . you said he is not the same for the last 6 months or so . remember is it the same time when your were physically involved with him . if your answer is yes then you know what are the reasons and all .
in my view he got what he wanted and now he is on his natural way as he is .

Answer 8

Let the love takes its course.

Answer 9

If he cares about he'll work through this, or he's just tired of you/knows you'll take his bull