This is ridiculous but my friend decided he would rather hang with me and my other friends ex's and has dropped us as friends. All I can think about is her fooling around with him and other guys and I cant get it out of my head!! What do I do? Ive heard alot of techniques but my mind is one tough knot to untangle.
2007-02-17 06:35:03 · 12 answers · asked by cryan46 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO TRUE FRIEND would do that. So first off...change friends*
It's hard knowing an "ex" is with a friend of yours let alone with anyone else.., but in time....it will become easier. Try try try to occupy yourself in other ways , doing things you like to do....rather than dwelling and picturing your ex in explicit situations. That's her choice to do so* Once you find someone else who will love you for you...trust me....you wont be thinking of her anymore(ex). GOODLUCK* and try to move on with your life.
2007-02-17 06:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recomend seeing a doctor as it may be repressed emotional truma, i wouldn't recommend seeing a therapist as they help you to open up not deal with the problem, it may seem embarrasing but it is the best thing, many anti-depressents don't work on certen idividuals so try to consult you locle GP/Doctor and try an see if you can go to a retreat to get away from life and remember something as simple as a new haircut can give you the boost you need to get through the day and remember if you know what the problem is the most theripist won't be able to help you. Don't forget you are a wonderful brave person to of come out of that hell hole and tried to sort out the problem instead of burying it, Best of luck.
2016-05-23 23:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, that's a tough one!! Well, for one (and for me personally), I wouldn't consider that guy a real friend if he dumps me as a friend to hang with my ex. What's that about?? Sounds pretty weird to me but hey, it's a difficult thing to accept so the quicker you do, the happier you'll be. Good riddance to your friend and your ex! Go make some new friends and try new things...life is too short to keeping spinning out on this...good luck!
2007-02-17 06:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by mauinei34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex- means Ex-, and nothing more. Concentrate on the future. Go to different places to meet new people.
There are plenty of fish in the ocean.
2007-02-17 06:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by kenneth h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you might still have feelings for one of those girls. If not, then you really should just not care. They are ex's for a reason..because your not together with them means they all can do whatever they want. If you really don't want him kissing your ex's..just talk to him and tell him you feel disrespected or tell him if you still have feelings for them. Thinking about it, kissing your friend's ex's is pretty shady..but If you talk to him and he doesnt change then just lose him as a friend. If he doesnt care about hurting your friendship then he's really not worth it.
2007-02-17 06:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by somanyhataz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say f*ck them all! You should never have to worry about your friends going so far to disrespect you by hanging out with a former flame of yours. It is cruel and insensitive to your feelings. Dont stress yourself out worrying about this, because what will be, will be. Just know this...this isn't going to be a long lasting friendship between them, they're using each other and doing this to get a reaction out of you and to **** u off. Ignore them and show them that it doesnt get to u and they will eventually give up.
2007-02-17 06:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ex and your friend want to fool around that's their choice. Sounds to me like you're not fully over this ex of yours and you need to come to terms with that. I would try counseling.
2007-02-17 06:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by Andi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your ex and what your friend and she does shouldn't be really any concern to you. Why didn't you keep her , if your going to want her to not have someone else. Are you sure you don't want your ex back, I would call her and tell her lets talk about things and see if she wants you back.
2007-02-17 06:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't have to kill urself for fools if u have gotten enough it wont be anything to u so do away wit it if u know it not good to u coz i believe it is easy to forget about fools
2007-02-17 06:41:37 · answer #9 · answered by hesrealcute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously i know its hard but you have to try and move past those jealousy issues, shes your ex so you have to move on...or try to get back togheter with her and talk to her about it...
2007-02-17 06:39:39 · answer #10 · answered by surfer2thextreme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋