Well, I think I have a communication problem with my boyfriend. Everytime i get mad at him i hang up. We argue alot on the phone, which makes one of us hang up on the other. There are soemtimes we get along perfectly and other times are just not. However, when I see him in person, we don't argue that much or if we do it's rarely. Is this communication problem a sign for something?
2007-02-17 06:27:39 · 6 answers · asked by The Infector 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you two are not compatable. No one should argue all the time on the phone or in person. Sure people have arguements it's part of nature., but if you're having to hang up cuz he's making you mad...or vice versa, YOU"RE not meant to be together.
Ask yourself when the last time you both LAUGHED , and really enjoyed yourself? Was it a one time thing? COMMUNICATION and HONESTY are the main keys to a long lasting loving relationship. Obviously this fellow isn't for you. Time to end it...or you'll waste alot of energy crying, being mad, upset, confused....when you should be feeling Happy, loved, and fulfilled. This guy isn't doing it for you > Stop playing his game and start a new* GOODLUCK*
2007-02-17 06:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may be frustrated by distance. It could be that you both rely on non verbal clues to understand the real meaning of what each other are saying and that's why the phone doesn't work for you. Sounds to me like it's still early days.
2007-02-17 06:31:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is impulse control.
When confronted in person, you rarely argue, because the both of you feel more accountable to the other in person.
However, on the phone you are still your own person.
2007-02-17 06:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by royalpainshane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a dnt thinkso... Me n my boyfriend are the same. We get on great face to face and on the fone we argue n fall out. I think it has something to do with no seeing ur other halfs reaction when u say something, cause u always get the wrong signals somnetimes. u pick them up wrong on the phone well thats what happens wiv us.
2007-02-17 06:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by Laura B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's very normal for yall to argue!...
It's a everytime thing in a relationship!...
U and ya mate are alwayz gonna argue no matter wat!...
As long as he don't hit u!
2007-02-17 06:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by Pooh Bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infector; Rumble up to his house on a Friday night in a black,
old noisy 'vee-eight', and chuck a 'Molitov-Cocktail'..
at a (bare) side ON his house..
That'll 'change his tune'!
2007-02-17 06:41:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋