at home and make things work at home would he tell the girlfriend about his baby? hoping that she accept it and work through it or would he not say anything at all and wait until she find out on her own .I need advice ,also if the guy was really unhappy at home how could someone tell?
2007-02-17 06:22:00 · 7 answers · asked by phillygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the guy has any decency, the answer should be obvious. A man with self-respect will raise his child and be a good father. He does not ignore the kid to protect his relationships, which obviously aren't that important to him if he's making babies with other women.
It's bad enough your girlfriend has a cheating sneak on her hands. If you do not come clean with her, she also has a gutless worm. You can't work things out at home as long as your main concern is saving face and getting away with your behavior.
I hope your girlfriend learns a lesson from this. Don't live with a guy who hasn't committed to monogamy for life. Get a ring next time.
2007-02-17 06:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by curiousme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a female that has had this happen I would say you tell her it is BEST for it to come out your mouth than anybody else. Because the girl you got pregnant finds out you want to work things out with your girlfriend she will probably be the first to want to open her big mouth. Tell your girlfriend everything and if she loves you and wants to try you better make sure that is also something you want. If you are unhappy people close to you will be able to tell but that didnt mean to go get someone else pregnant. YOU should of left your girl if it was that bad. Cheating is one thing but having a kid do you know what that even means. I feel for your girlfriend that lives with you!
2007-02-17 14:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by abbs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay first of all he really should have thought about it before he had an affair and got another girl pregnant!!!He should be honest with his gf but i very much doubt if she would accept and still want to be with him a man who a) cheated on her and b)got the person he was cheated with pregnant. Secondly if he has been cheating on her got this other person pregnant and is sooooo unhappy at home why would he want to stay there.
2007-02-17 14:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by kazz06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants his cake and to eat it too.
If a guy is unhappy at home., he won't be home very often, isn't affectionate, doesn't want to sleep with you or have much to do with you., always fights with you about silly things so he can leave again to go out and make you feel like it's your fault.
If he made another girl pregnant...I doubt he would tell you bout it...
If this is what's going on...time you kick him to the curb. Get rid of him. Tell him it's time he leaves* Move on with your life you'll be much better off without him and find someone who loves you for you* NO games *Goodluck*
2007-02-17 14:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were unhappy at home which led you to stray,why would you want to remain at home with your girlfriend?Be honest with yourself and tell her the truth.You have responsibilities now,let your girlfriend go and stop being so selfish.She deserves a life with someone that loves and respects her.You need to be there for your kid now.
2007-02-17 14:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you do such a stupid thing? if you wanted to sleep with someone else then you should have broken up w/your live in girlfriend. what is wrong with people? i don't understand why people go and look for something when they have it at home. you needto tell her what has happened before she finds out from someone else. that will be a low blow. be a man and step up to the plate and tell her!!!!! know!!!!!
2007-02-17 14:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by lynnie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is NOT something you work through.
2007-02-17 14:26:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋