do any other guys really like this?

Question

so this guy that just broke my heart for another girl is now boyfriend and girlfriend with this girl and i don't understand why.. because she always makes him do all sorts of crap for her and she complains All the time... she has had a bf before, but i truly don't think she is good enough for him. (sorry i hate when people say that.. but it's true in this case) he was such an amazing guy when he was with me, and he was Himself. but yet he chose to go with her. his best friend even admitted to me that he has changed for the worst because of her and he is not himself like he was with me. his reason for not being with me was that he thought i was "too good for him" (even though i'm not even close and never acted like that) and that he always thought other guys were looking at me because i was so beautiful and he didn't like being jealous. but yet, this girl always sits by her ex at school.. so wouldn't he be jealous of having to deal with that..? i don't get it.. why does he like her

Answer 1

In life, there is always one person that has a hold on us that we can't explain. My advice to you is just be his friend for now and date a lot to keep yourself from thinking too much about him. When he breaks up with her, and he will eventually when he gets fed up with her, you will be there for him, if you are with your bf by then. But you should definitely date right now, otherwise you will go crazy thinking about how this girl is mistreating your friend. It's his mistake for dating her, let him go through it and learn from it, so he doesn't make that same mistake again with someone else.