Date a Bartender ? Any obvious problems?

Question

A male friend wants to date a female bartender he met. Most of his other male friends are trying to dissaude him from it. They are
both in their late 40's. Having never dated a bartender, I don't know
why his other friends are objecting so strongly. Any opinions about
this would be greatly appreciated. Hurry, he's getting close to making his "move".

Answer 1

let him try. if he is good enough to go out with bartender he is cool enough to handle it

Answer 2

They are probably trying to keep him from getting hurt or made a fool out of. Most people that work in that profession are always hit on, and if he wants to date her then he has to except what she does for a living, it's one thing to be one of the people she flirts with to get good tips, but it's another to watch her flirt, once you become involved with her, you see the difference.Bartenders men or woman have to be real nice to customers, because that's how they make their tips for the night,the nicer they are the more people spend money and the more tips they make.So he should know what he's getting into and deal with once he does.The fact that she comes in contact with all types of different men,could also be a promblem for him, due to the fact someone could come in that interest her.I did that at one time and my boyfriend made me quit because he was so jealous of the attention that you get,specially if your nice looking. Good luck hope this helps

Answer 3

If he wants to do it he'll do it. But after a while he'll figure out why his friends were trying to tell him not to.